my sister is 14 and she talks to a 20 year old dude he sings and stuff and hes about to blow up she wants to have a baby with him and she wants to know if he really loves her what should she do?
2006-10-10 06:28:39 · 13 answers · asked by arielle d 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
keep her legs closed. she is too young to be trying to have a baby with an ADULT. if he wants to be the next R Kelly he can keep on but it is ILLEGAL to have sex with a minor.
if he really loved her, she would not be questioning it or trying to have a baby by him to keep him close if he does blow up.
Tell her to get a hobby and keep that nickle between her knees. You seem as though you are ok with this realtionship. how much older are you then your sister because you should be screaming like the rest of yahoo will be when they read this.
or are YOU your 'sister'?
2006-10-10 06:29:50 · answer #1 · answered by Kynnie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only is your sister way to young to be with a 20 year old....she needs to realize that having a baby with someone isn't going to make him love her. In fact, she may end up pregnant and he'll have taken off. If I were you I would do what's best for your sister....get her away from this guy, either on your own or with the help of your parents.
2006-10-10 13:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by ekielly07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with the 20 year old, he's a child predator. That's nasty. I think that your parents should know about this, right away. A baby shouldn't be having babies or SEX. She is way too young to know what that is even like, let alone have a baby. Where are your parents?
2006-10-10 14:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by msellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a heart to heart with her and break things down for her. don't shout but explain to her she is young and naive also take her out and show her other men like her that say they are about to blow up and tell her just how hard it is to break into the music scene. also tell her he is a nasty little perv that just wants to f**k her yes tell her f**k because he don't love her.try and find other girls that has been in the same situation as your sis and show her what happens. to get her off babies let her take care of a real one for a day and make sure that baby is difficult and has a rash or illness to show her babies aren't easy. if that doesn't work get a court Oder on that pervert because she is under age and if she still wants her talk to him in other words threaten the hell out of him get your mom involved but only as a last measure.
2006-10-10 15:16:55 · answer #4 · answered by qwerty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And your parents are aware of this relationship? That would be statutory rape and he would go to jail should charges be pressed against him! You really should talk to mom and dad! As far as him loving her...He is probably using her! What would a 20 year old man want with a 14 year old child?
2006-10-10 13:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by **KELLEY** 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is way too young to think about having a baby.
2006-10-10 13:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a 14 year old and forget about a nasty 20 year old creep that likes 14 year old girls.
FYI--every singer wanna be is "about to blow up" according to themselves. Your sister sounds naaive and is going to get hurt unless she forets about the loser.
2006-10-10 13:32:42 · answer #7 · answered by Cassandra K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your sister should stop seeing that guy. She's too young to think of having a baby.
2006-10-10 13:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by tata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sould enjoy her time with him. She sould ask herself why is this man (adult) want to be with me? If she can figure out any reason other then sex then good for them. I bet she's kidding herself if she does find any other reason. Think of it this way--this adult is on his own and has so many other outside experiences, why would he want to be with a fourteen year old who is barely in HS? I say she should break up with him, find a nice boy, and have fun with him.
2006-10-10 13:33:22 · answer #9 · answered by .vato. 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if she is under age I would get the law involved. That is RAPE although she is wanting this baby. BEST WISHES
2006-10-10 14:15:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋