confused part deux?

Question

ell, i took advice on the last girl, and it went good until she decided to get back with her old bf...on a better note, this new girl we held hands on the 2nd date, which was on sunday night..im getting mixxed feelings on her, like she likes me, but then she doesnt. durring the 1st date she said she liked me.maybe im just reading into things alot, and i shouldnt but...

Answer 1

You go into these things confused and you come out confused. Have you thought about the fact that we are never sure about anyone's feeling for us because they aren't going to make it obvious and therefore cast themselves as desperate. It is always a cat and mouse game at your age because you and the doll don't have enough life experience to feel comfortable and self assurred. She is not giving mixed feelings, you are putting your feelings in a blender and turning on the juice. And, also, I know very young teens tell each other they "like" each other but that doesn't mean anything. With a teen, likes and dislikes change with the weather. You are expecting too much from a teenage girl. Stop it! Gee, that was kind of mean of me to say it that way so I'll rephrase it: Stop the crap! Hmmmm.