one time i had sex with my boyfriend and he said i was loose and he didnt feel anything but then i went back to being tight and he thinks i cheated on him and i didnt i dont know y it was like that i need help
2006-10-10 06:17:08 · 11 answers · asked by ryansgcgirl 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Dump the loser!
As for what makes you loose...outside the obvious, I would imagine how much you've ate and drank...when the last time you went to the bathroom...those probably factor into how loose or tight you feel...
2006-10-10 06:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by a kinder, gentler me 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being really aroused, makes you produce natural lubricants, which can sometimes cause guys not to feel as much if there is an excessive amount... but it happens to everyone so don't feel bad about that. As for being loose having sex A LOT can cause it, but you shoudln't have to refrain from doing it because you are worried about him.
There are things called kegals that can help tighten the muscles in your vagina. The magazing Cosmo talks about them all the time, and they do work and can help give you better sexual satisfaction. You can do kegals any time anywhere. To do them just focus on clenching the muscles around your vagina and releasing. You can read more about it at Cosmo.com or just googling it and researching it on the net. It will probably give a better description on how to do them.
2006-10-10 07:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by allsmiles_24seven 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally believe there is nothing wrong with you. All females are different and it has to do with your muscle use. Some girls tense up in the moment and it give a sense of tightness for the male and some females don't. The female body is very sensitive and different. You aren't doing anything wrong. If ur bf can't see that, there is something wrong with him.
2006-10-10 06:30:34 · answer #3 · answered by msp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn, honey. i will list the easiest and most obvious answer first...having kids. that will make you looser than normal. but, over time you can and probably will tighten up. anything other than that, all i can figure is that perhaps he was not as excited as he claimed or not as "well proportioned. " in my experience you can tighten up to fit someone. or even going with out sex for a while can "tighten" you.
2006-10-10 06:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by Donna L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly, my dear you need a new boyfriend...that IS abuse. My first thought is that maybe you are not too big but rather(think about it) and say it TO HIM! the jerk...
2006-10-10 06:25:37 · answer #5 · answered by Mod M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That person above me is right - your boyfriend IS an idiot. I notice that after I haven't seen my boyfriend for months (long distance relationship), it is harder for him to get in.
2006-10-10 06:21:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you were loose you were probably relaxed and aroused
if he is threatening you then you will not be either and therefore tight
dump and get a mna who respects you
2006-10-10 06:20:29 · answer #7 · answered by wwJad 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you need a doctor for this one girlfriend
2006-10-10 06:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by thinksclearnow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you're bf knows what he is talking about
2006-10-10 06:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
ur vagina is big, if a girl has sex enough, her vagina gets bigger i diameter.
2006-10-10 06:21:02 · answer #10 · answered by sharp 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋