I have been going out with my boyfriend for a year now. Love him sooo much. However, two weeks ago, I met this guy at a wedding whom I now have a crush on. He asked me out for a movie after which we kissed and fondled. I felt so horrible about it and I decided to tell my boyfriend that i had gone out with another guy "just for a movie". He is now mad at me. Why? For "just going for a movie" with another guy. Does this mean I shouldnt meet new people just coz I have a boyfriend? Anyhow, have a crush on boy no 2 whose been calling me and asking me out again though I've made it clear that I have a boyfriend and still want to be with him but he doesnt seem to listen. What do I do?
2006-10-10 06:13:00 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You kiss and fondle and you don't know if you cheated? What the hell kind of screwed up ***** are you? Do yourself and the guys a favor and start charging money.
2006-10-10 06:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Fooled 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask if what you did was cheating, then the odds are it was. You said that you "kissed and fondled" and that means cheating. Just because you have a boyfriend doesn't mean that you have to stop meeting people, however it does mean that you have to stop fooling around with other people. If you don't have enough respect for your boyfriend to do that then you should at least have enough respect to break up with him. You will always have crushes and be attracted to other people. You just shouldn't act on them when you supposedly love your boyfriend soooo much.
2006-10-10 13:25:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK your a slut, Your the kind of cheating slut that found after a man go on a rampage killing every one one the street finding out only later that he has a cheating slut for a girl friend. you the kind of slut they make dirty joke about.
OK now that you know who you are here is your answer:
Do you know what is the different between love and lust? Lust is part of love the animal part. the part that behave like an animal. the reason why the bible was created. Lust turn down the dark path like what you do lead to all kind or things in society like the red light district of town.
Love is trust. Trust is earn through time and deed. you action warrant no trust so therefore you are just lusting for boy. Which is fine at your age but it's not love. you action cause pain to the person who "trust" you or love you. you told the truth not because you feel bad for him but you fear for your own feeling of guilt that you don't love him but just want his friendship. so you use him, tease him all the while you "shop" for other guy.
Just brake up and have a an orgy with some guy. When your vagina fall off from STD then your ready to settle down with a real man. And then I pray he won't fail your Trust in him.
2006-10-10 13:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you cheated on him. what is your problem!!! and you don';t know why you bf is mad. the only person you should be fondeling you and kissing you and doing intamite things is your boyfriend. If you want to be a swinger maybe you are not ready for a commited relationship with your current boyfriend. I think you should let him go before you hurt him. You have relly disrespected your bf. Why do you keep himn around if you want to date other guys that's just wrong. What;s the point of being with him if your fcuking around with other guys. Don't you get the point? I mean you guys can still be friends. But you just can't ever BE together unless you are seriously commiting to be with one man.. I got a bf yeah I get crushes on some guys. And i be like..."damn he's hot." But I got a boyfriend. It's like window shopping.I love the one im with and I couldn;t see myself with someone else better than him. Maybe you are not inlove and he can provide to you with what you want? that's why you seek it else where. But still have some morals. it's friken common sense.
Good luck with your love life.
2006-10-10 13:22:31 · answer #4 · answered by blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you've cheated and you've crossed the line by accepting a date with another guy. You can meet new people, but never accept dates, kiss and fondle with them. You're going to far. No wonder the guy is not taking you seriously. I wouldn't either. You have disrespected your relationship with your b/f. I don't blame him for being mad. You went on another date with a guy.
2006-10-10 13:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you cheated. Put yourself in his shoes. Lets say he met some girl that he used to like.... They "Just went to the movies". How would you feel? The fact that you kissed and fondled is even worse. If you are in a relationship than your in a relationship. Foundling and kissing other people is off limits!!
2006-10-10 13:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by kcastillo1220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't JUST go to a movie you "kissed and fondled" after. so yEs you cheated and he has every right to be mad and he should break up with you! how would you feel if he went to a movie with a girl he liked and kissed and touched her?? if you loved him sooo much you wouldn't be going out with other guys
2006-10-10 13:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok YES YOU CHEATED and you know you did that's silly of you to ask you kissed and fondled. As of meeting people I think it's cool you meet people every day but you just can't kiss & fondle or other things if you know what I mean " HANDS OFF, LIPS OFF". If theres pretty much anything sexual done it's considered cheating well atleast to me it is. Good luck girl
2006-10-10 13:38:20 · answer #8 · answered by Peaces2`MyHeart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he mad at you??? Put yourself in his shoes. Yes, you cheated and if I were him, I would say goodbye to you and move on.
End one relationship before you start another. Of copurse you can meet new people, but do you want your cake and eat it too.
Going on a date, kissing, fondling...... you are going to get a reputation if you continue this behaviour...
You have now led 2 guys on... Are you proud of yourself!!!!!
They should both move on, you can't be trusted in a committed relationship.....
2006-10-10 13:19:10 · answer #9 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What will you feel if your boyfriend tells you that he goes out with another girl??? Ask yourself and you will know why he was mad at you. And, if you really loves him then you should tell that guy that you already have a boyfriend and you love him so much. But still you can be his friend, but you have to tell your boyfriend about that.
2006-10-10 13:27:18 · answer #10 · answered by Wanlaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just don't get it, do you? If your boyfriend went out to a movie with another girl and they were kissing and fondling, I'll bet your head would spin around.
2006-10-10 13:16:54 · answer #11 · answered by Spud55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋