how do u know when you are ready to have sex ?

Answer 1

Only you can determine this. If you have to ask, I would say you are not ready.

I can offer the factors I personally took into consideration:

I was in a steady relationship.
There was love, openly, in both directions.
My partner and I trusted each other completely and fully.
There were agreements on contraceptive use during intercourse, and alternative activities when there were no contraceptive methods available.

Age consideration isn't really a consideration, though I do feel that too many "children" are having sex to prove points, because they are pressured into it, and because they are not educated fully and completely on all forms of contraceptives and birth control methods or safer sex options.

Before you consider the factors I have offered - DO a lot of research on safer sex options, contraceptives/birth control, and talk to your parent(s) about it. There is too much ignorance these days on the subject of sex, mainly because of everyone teaching Abstinence - which fundamentally is flawed, though it seems like a good idea. Find out the information - make an EDUCATED decision.

Answer 2

if your ready... you will know. But use protection PLEASE there is too much goin on these days.
But you know your not ready if you feel pressured into it in any way. It should feel comfortable and special and you should be prepared for knowing you can never get it back... I lost mine when I was 15 two months from 16, and I think mostly cause all of my other friends had already had sex and I wanted to see what all the hype was about. But it opens up a whole different lifestyle and way of living, and a whole different process in the way you think about relationships and how far you will let a guy go in the future... cause this will not be your last boyfriend 99% guaranteed and after you have had sex, just messing around isn't a big deal anymore.
Just be careful and make sure the guy your with cares enough about you to take his time... and remember that you will have to remember him for the REST OF YOUR LIFE!!!! Now that I look back on it I wish that I had waited but hell hindsight is 20/20...

Answer 3

If you have to ask, then your not ready!! Wait until your married, that would be the best time, for anyone. You don't want to just sleep with anyone, because when you do finally meet that one special person and fall inlove, your past could come back to haunt you. Take my advise and SAVE YOURSELF..

Answer 4

When you have reach the legal age and when you have found the right person. Sex is not something you give away promiscuously. It should be with the person you love and who loves you. You know it when you feel right : )

Answer 5

Can you picture yourself with a kid? If no, then don't have sex

Answer 6

when you already married. it is the best time