me and my boyfriend been going together for a month and we in love but i think it came to fast what should i do and i told him i am in love but dnt want to be but he dnt do anything wrong. I just dnt want to get hurt like i did before
2006-10-10 06:02:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Be open with him, Sit down and talk about ur feeling, Let him know that ur relationship with him is extremely important and that u dont want to loose him b/c u love him alot but u dont want to get hurt. Tell him how u feel ask him to give you advise, You need to let him know that ur scared for you and ur feelings.
Thats not a reason to brake up though, especially if he's a good guy. Talk with him and be strong, If he loves u he will help you get through this, And remember, there are still nice guys out there.
2006-10-10 06:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its common to feel like things are going too fast. When my girlfriend and I started dating we skipped ALL the steps/time lines and things moved faster than I was expecting. However, we realized that we truly did love each other, even if we were worried that we left our guards down.
Don't look too into it; the best thing for you to do is act natural and not bring it up a ton. If you keep emphasizing it, one of you might get scared and run off.
2006-10-10 06:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with it.. you dont have to necesarily tell him today that you dont really honestly love him or else you will hurt him. Continue on but dont rush and get married or anything. Dont fall for him too hard either.. try not to!
2006-10-10 06:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow. Why would anyone not want to be in love. My guess is if you relax and enjoy being with him things will go well. If you start stressing about being in love then your relationship is doomed to failure.
2006-10-10 06:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in love is the best thing in the world. Enjoy it while it lasts- even if it's for a day, a month, or forever...........
But the only way you can enjoy it, is if you give your love fully.............with no regrets, and no looking back. Cause what you give, is what you'll get.
2006-10-10 06:16:29 · answer #5 · answered by candy- capped 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love = Trust
Trust is earn not given with deeds. You need time with him and he need to earn that trust........ and Lust play a stonge roll in confusing that. cause lust is NOW NOW NOW!!!
Just tell him the truth. "You lust him but don't trust him yet. so just wait I feel I can trust ya"
2006-10-10 06:11:45 · answer #6 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats how we all feel we dont want to get hurt..well i dont
2006-10-10 06:05:42 · answer #7 · answered by alisha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋