Well I went out with this boy last year, and he was kind of mean to me.....He kept telling people that we weren't going out.....When I would go over there to talk to him he would break up with me secretly..and then tell other people that the reason he said yes was because I wouldn't quit begging him....when it was the other way around!
Well this happend about 4 or 5 times! Then the last time he asked me out I told him no because of what he did to me, and he wouldn't quit so I ended up telling him yes...because I really really liked him and I still did....but then ha did it to me agian! He made me look so stupid! And yesterday during class I cought him looking at me a couple of times....we ended up playing footsies in a weird way....and he ended up talking to me!
I don't know if he likes me or not...or if its just a stupid highschool joke??
2006-10-10 05:49:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
He's a tease,... He gets off on making you Vulnerable, when he gets the chance - He will exploit you and use you just for sex.
Ignore him and get on with your life, he's doesn't like you - he only wants your body.
Of course, you can lead him on, and just be classmates. Otherwise, if you let him get serious When He wants, you will only suffer later on.
You might think you're going through your own piece of hell, well look at it this way, . . .
When he uses you and exploits you, you're just gonna be even more miserable when you realize he IS using you for a gullible morron. When you feel betrayed and used, you won't just feel dirty, but you will feel like - something tossed out a car window. Used and discarded.
Don't date him anymore, unless you enjoy being used and really don't mind being someone else's doormat and plaything.
cheers babe.
2006-10-10 06:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by somber_pieces 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't find it THAT offensive I wouldn't worry about it too much, there are worse stereotypes besides, if you plan of having a wife, just politely correct the person, no biggy :) As for the Beyonce thing, she is talking about trading places ya know, so in a sense she is the "girl" that she's talking about Well now i'm confused so... Peace!
2016-03-28 03:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! I feel so sorry for you! But I say you should leave him... But do it in a way that he will never forget.... When he's around his friends, go up to him and say "Remember last night when you begged me to be your gf again? Well I changes my mind, I NO longer want to be w/you and stop bugging me!" I know it might hurt but he's hurting you more!
2006-10-10 06:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by maria * 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he is emotionally inept. He probably likes you but doesn't want other people to know. For some reason he is embarassed to be seen with you and/or he likes someone else as well and doesn't want the chances with them spoilt. If he is not proud to be seen with you then he is an idiot and you should find someone who is.
2006-10-10 05:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by Caroline 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
oh girl high school boys can be mean. but he is old enough to know what he wants. maybe he is afraid his friends r gonna tease him but is he really worth putting urself through that torture jus because he cant face his friends. if he really liked u he would be brave enough and proud enough to be with u. kick him to the curb and fine someone who really treasures u.
2006-10-10 06:58:43 · answer #5 · answered by diamond 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a real winner. You should probably dump him and move on to avoid this high school drama.
2006-10-10 06:03:10 · answer #6 · answered by wretched wonder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should we just change your name to "doormat" and be done with it??? Why on earth, after typing that story and reading it to yourself, would you even consider going out with this guy ever again??? You need to first work on your self-esteem, girl. You deserve better... but YOU need to believe that.
2006-10-10 05:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
this guy is just fooling around....he seems immature
it could be a high school joke
don't give him the chance to be mean with you again
2006-10-10 05:54:30 · answer #8 · answered by going-to-light 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ditch Him and find a real man
2006-10-10 05:51:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
with that kind of person you should for get about hem because it is only going to get worse if i wore you i would leave hem for good.
2006-10-10 07:39:13 · answer #10 · answered by o0jas is the name0o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋