My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 months…. We started having sex 3 weeks after we got together…. The sex is great…. The best I have ever had…. The problem is every time we do it I can only last 1 minute….. we do it 3 times a day but I only last a min. the longest we’ve went was 15min. what can I do to make it last a long time????
2006-10-10 05:44:39 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Might I suggest Popsicle sticks and duct tape ?
2006-10-10 05:47:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
1. take care of business in the bathroom before your next encounter
2. have a few beers
3. try thinking about something besides how great it is to be having sex like baseball, or your parents just don't get to weird you don't want to shrivel up ya know
4. if she isn't getting off during your 1 min. marathon some oral pleasure on her might be a good idea.
5. not the best of my solutions but if your feeling depressed anti depressants can make it a little desensitized (i took them about a year) lasted super long
2006-10-10 06:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how old you are but this is perfectly normal for a young man, or one that hasnt had much sex in the past.
For men to maintain an erection for a longer period of time it takes practice holding back. 15 minutes is quite good. I think the average is around 8 minutes.
2006-10-10 05:51:01 · answer #3 · answered by kari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about anything besides her hot body. If you care about her you will try your best not ***...If you feel an urge to *** then stop a minute pull your senses together and keep on trucken. If that doesn't work have a little alcohol before having sex it will calm you down and you won't *** as fast. Or jerk off before you see her to release or think of your times tables while in the act. I am telling you this will work!!
2006-10-10 05:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time and do some foreplay. Also, as weird as this sounds, have your girl give you handjobs instead of intercourse for a while. And be sure to masturbate if she isn't around and you're in the mood. That'll bring up your stamina, since practice makes perfect.
2006-10-10 05:56:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be young. This is very common in young men. With age comes wisdom and patience. You need to try thinking of other things during the act to get your mind off of how great it feels. This will allow enough time for her to enjoy it as well. Trust me, she can't be enjoying it too much if she only gets a few minutes out of you. Focus on pleasing her and have patience. It's so much better if you let her get hot and heavy too!
Good luck!
2006-10-10 05:48:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
first of all enjoy having sex often
most of us can't manage three times a week never mind every day
then simply ensure that your gf comes first
loads of foreplay
and lots of oral should do the trick
then who cares how long you last
the whole may have taken an hour or more
even if you came quicly after entry
2006-10-10 06:17:30 · answer #7 · answered by wwJad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should see a doctor and then maybe urologist. Try rubbing one out before you have sex, or better yet have her help you. Viagra is great, but it delay your orgasm. What happened when you lasted 15 minutes?
2006-10-10 05:48:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL...yeah it must be good if you can only hold it a min. But even on the 3rd time in a day? Apparently you just ejaculate easily. Talk to your doctor instead of idiots on here - there's prob something you can do.
2006-10-10 05:48:26 · answer #9 · answered by jonjon418 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Exercise regularly.Exercising your PC muscle can help you shoot further than ever before.Read How to Exercise your PC muscles at http://www.ayurvediccure.com/penis_enlargement_stretching.htm
PC Exercises:
While Kegel exercises can help you last longer, they can also aid in increasing sperm volume. There are a host of exercises you can do to keep your penis in great shape and shoot like a champion.
(Butter's note: PC muscle exercises have proven to help reduce prostate troubles in advancing age, but I have yet to see improvements in my ejaculate's volume through this method)
2006-10-10 08:16:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is going to sound bad but trust me it works... try thinking about something else... like what time your favorite show comes on... or what you think might happen on this weeks episode... try singing to yourself too...
2006-10-10 05:47:06 · answer #11 · answered by dfksaturn2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋