well I am in job crop and I had a boyfriend up here but he got kicked out he was doing me wrong now i got a good boyfriend that treat me good he sweet as hell. but i keep bringing my past up and thinking he going hurt me like my ex
2006-10-10 05:08:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is pretty normal to fear being hurt once it has happened. The best thing you can do is let the new boyfriend know that you are a bit scared but don't obsess over it and don't keep bringing it up. You will only drive him away if he can't feel trusted. Be strong and do your best to put the past behind. We can't move forward if we keep looking back.
2006-10-10 05:11:28 · answer #1 · answered by Andrea T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i had an issue like that once, but what u do is let it go and i know it's hard and u can't let go completely but to a certain degree IF u want to make this other relationship work. Any thoughts that u may have keep to yourself and just see what's goin to happen, if u sense something no right about him then by all means do what u gotta do ( research his profile). At one time or another your going to have to let it go and move on and i know it's hard trust , like i said b4 i have been through something similar. U don't want to run him away because of the last man mistakes u might miss out on something good, so let him do him and if u have a discrepancy, u deal with it because the discrepancy is with him not the ex-boyfriend. Girl please straight, f*** the otha ***** and do u and make that ***** feel bad about his self.
2006-10-10 05:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by the real deal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur just going to have to understand that he's not ur ex!!! so if u say that he is sweet and he treat's u right. then dont try to live in the past not every guy will be like ur ex!!! just remember that
2006-10-10 05:19:36 · answer #3 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF U REALLY THINK THE ONE U HAVE IS "THE ONE" U BETTER LET IT BE, AND LET IT GO BE HAPPY DO NOT ADD EXTRA DRAMA TO A RELATIONSHIP!!!!!
LIFE IS TO SHORT AND U MUST LIVE IT AS IF IT WERE UR LAST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
GOOD LUCK !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! JENN
2006-10-10 05:46:25 · answer #4 · answered by JENN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋