Again i have a dilema..i am pregnant and my baby`s father wants an open relationship. We have a child on the way how can he ask me that? to top it of he broke up with me 4 days ago becaus e he needed a break because he is over stressed. He wants me to live with him but he also wants to have sex with other femals. I am 5 months pregnant, and i can`t accept what hes asking me for. He said he loves me how can you love somebody and have sex with somebody else. help plz
2006-10-10 05:04:51 · 10 answers · asked by Raluca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh Please, Sex is just a physical thing, ithas nothing to do with love, that is what the puritans and religious freaks always bang on about. Obviously you are going to be out of action for a while but if you really love him you will want him to be happy too. I would go along with this and also start to take a lead, more Bj's Anal, group stuff, and make sure he is around for you and the kids when they grow up. After all you will hardly be an attractive package for anyone else xxx
2006-10-10 05:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by JoyDivision 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That funny Ive been married for 30 yrs and have the same problem it has nothing to do with you being Pregnant so get rid of him while you are young enough to start over with a guy who can really love and care for you and your child on your terms not his crazy idea of what marriage and love is. Hes a jerk and doesn't love anyone but him self/ He is selfish self centered and egotistical tell him take it from me he a loser and will one day regret the choice he is now making because you sound like a person who knows what they want and are willing to go after it.
2006-10-10 05:12:34 · answer #2 · answered by yahoo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK he is 20 going on to 12 and he is in no shape to help raise your kid. here what you need to do.
1) Leave him. Just pack up and leave NOW!!
2) sue him of child support, EVERY PENNY HE GOT!!
3) go back to school and get an REAL college degree. Don't sit around the house and collect welfare all day. Ask for student loan or something. There are always money out there for student who want to go some where. Any thing in medical is big money.
4) don't have him come near you, call you, email you. and for god sake don't sleep with him. He probably already slept with other girls and you might get STD from him.
2006-10-10 05:21:36 · answer #3 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This immature loser wants to move you to the back burner so he can keep on getting laid while you're pregnant.
Either ditch this punk or burn him with his own game - find a new boyfriend who appreciates you pregnant or not, then leave and sue him for child support once the baby is born. If he tries to get back with you, tell him you're happy just keeping him on the side "as a booty call". Then, don't call.
2006-10-10 05:14:26 · answer #4 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I am so sorry to say this, but you really need to dump this selfish loser. He isn't concerned about you, much less his baby. He is only concerned with his needs & wants. Make sure he takes financial responsibility for the baby. You didn't do this alone. Begin to think of your life alone and with a baby only. Call your clergy or someone you trust in your area to get you help with the baby and finances. I hope you have a solid family backing you on this one honey. Good luck to you and congratulations on your baby!!!
2006-10-10 05:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him he dont care about u o da baby.How can som1 love u sleep around with other pple?He knows u r preggie u canot c other pple n he's takin advantage.Am sorry buh da guy's selfish n u r better off w/out him.Take care n ol the best.
2006-10-10 05:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by soft heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pure and simple: he doesn't love you or the baby. he wants sex. and you are out of bounds, so he'll get it anywhere he can. he is selfish and he is an ********. get rid of him, for your sake and the baby's. A baby shouldn't have to grow up with a father that doesn't care, and you shouldn't have to live with a guy that so obviously doesn't love you.
2006-10-10 05:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by karyn n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl sorry to hear................ but i guess you could say he's really not ready to be a daddy cause if he was a MAN he would be there for you and his baby not off with some other girl .. you need to talk to him and tell him just how you feel and if he don't like it girl move on your just going to get hurt in the end and you need to look out for your baby.......... that's all that matter if hes going to be like that .....then girl its you and your baby look out for what you and your little one need
2006-10-10 05:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants his cake and to eat it too as the saying goes... but I would not stand for this behavior... you need to tell him how you feel and move on for yourself and your unborn child.... you both deserve to be happy...
2006-10-10 05:08:10 · answer #9 · answered by oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him off...the more you want him to stay with you...the more you hurt and suffer all the things he done. Talk with him seriously with open heart.
2006-10-10 05:11:26 · answer #10 · answered by jacky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋