my best friend likes my boyfriend and i love him and its driving me crazy cos i know she is going to trie doing something so wat should i do
2006-10-10 04:58:43 · 30 answers · asked by olahh! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey
Tell your friend that's your bf and to get her own it's not hard hey she
can look me up i don't have girlfriend right now
2006-10-11 01:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously she isn't your best friend if she's going to try and move in on your boyfriend. If you're comfortalbe with your relationship with your boyfriend and you know that he loves you back then you really have nothing to worry about. Talk to you "friend" about it and tell her that she needs to back off. It wouldn't be a bad idea to talk to your boyfriend about it either. This way you know exactly what he feels and thinks about it all too.
2006-10-10 12:02:20 · answer #2 · answered by JayEmmBee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend that he needs to confront her with and tell her he isn't interested in her. Or he can tell one of his friends to tell her, or even in a note, but from him. Tell your boyfriend how upset you are that this girl, your so called best friend, is going to try and break ya'll up. If he loves you the way you love him he will be the man and take care of it. I have seen girls actually fist fight over some guy and to me it just makes BOTH girls look trashy.
2006-10-10 12:04:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get her own man!! I think there are women out there who like the challenge of trying to get with a man who is already taken, in this case, watch out! She could just be jealous that you have a man and are happy with him and that she wants that same happiness....help her find a great guy so she'll stay away from yours!! Good luck!
2006-10-10 12:09:46 · answer #4 · answered by ~MEEEOW~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Cute devil:
Face the sad reality that if she can get him away from you, he's not worth having. There are still a lot of 'fish' in the sea and you're young enuf to go fishing for a long time. If you lose him, cry, yell and stamp your feet. When you're finished, go find another.
2006-10-10 12:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's simple, if she wants your man, they she not only does not respect you as a friend, but she's not the best friend you think she is. Actions always speak louder than words dear. Tell her that if she values you as a friend then to back off. Ask her if it's worth risking her friendship with you.
2006-10-10 12:04:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, learn to spell. i mean this in a good way. you won't command the kind of respect from anyone if you whine and don't know how to spell.
secondly, it is a compliment when your friend thinks your guy is a hottie. tell her you appreciate how she likes your taste but back off
thirdly, guys will be guys and will love all this fierce attention...either get used to it or find someone w/ a better ego.
2006-10-10 12:03:14 · answer #7 · answered by carolcat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly love will take it's own planned journey.
If your best friend was a true friend she would not be after your boyfriend.
You need to keep him happy and keep her happy too - or dump one or the other or both of them.
2006-10-10 12:06:35 · answer #8 · answered by thebigtombs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's no friend if she's gonna try it on with ur bf.
Try making it obvious that you love him ect.
If she does try soemthing still then I wouldn't think she was a friend anymore, and I guess the response of ur bf will tell u if he should be with you.
Tough situation, sorry
2006-10-10 12:02:58 · answer #9 · answered by scaryclairy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like it's happened before , the stealing of a boyfriend. You need to tell her to butt out of your affairs. And, you need to talk to your new love and make sure he understands where the lines are drawn. If he wants to play, you need to know.
2006-10-10 12:01:22 · answer #10 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋