ex boyfriend and me broke up on bad terms, a lot of drama in the old relationship and mean words were said before, after the breakup but he said being friends would b ok yet i told him i wasn't sure and did not talk to him since, but everytime we are around mutual friends it gets awkward and i hate that feeling and so do my friends. should i get new friends someplace else or stick with them and just continue to ignore the ex?
2006-10-10 04:57:00 · 6 answers · asked by Tiffany Rae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you are having a bad feeling about it, don't bother. Follow that gut feeling. If you think your friends are worth keeping, then don't throw away your friends because of him. If he is around and you feel uncomfortable, then just ignore him and if he happens to say hello, then just answer and say hello and keep moving. If he questions you about being friends, just say to him nicely that you do not think you would feel comfortable being his friend and don't mind just saying hello due to the situation (being with your friends). If it still bothers you, then go ahead and find new friends and a different environment that will benefit your life. Always do what you think will be best for you and not for anyone else. All the best to you.
2006-10-10 05:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think what you should do is find a way to talk it out with ur ex and see if u can come to a mutual agreement with him that nothing will be awkward aleast around the friends. I dont think it would be fair to your friends if u ditched them because of ur ex. Its just something you may need to work out with him!
Good Luck!
2006-10-10 05:01:07 · answer #2 · answered by luckiemonkey213 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly have one ex that i'm nonetheless friends with. He and that i had an exceptionally short relationship and so we've been truly in basic terms friends who dated "kind of." i do no longer think of in case you have had a protracted relationship, or a bad relationship which you'll be friends with an ex. There are in basic terms too many thoughts of the two animosity or "like" that are nonetheless there. it truly is in basic terms maximum suitable to shrink ties and circulate on.
2016-10-02 03:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just continue to ignore the ex. Explain that you're not ready to be friends. Why would you want to be friends with him anyway?
2006-10-10 05:03:49 · answer #4 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with your friends (if they are nice to you?) Ignore him, things will get better. Time will change things. Soon you'll meet someone else and you wont even remember you dated him!
2006-10-10 05:00:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the wer ur friends they would understand the situation and say fine we r all friends and they know that it was a bad breakup , just say hi 2 him and keep it movin.
2006-10-10 05:06:56 · answer #6 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋