2006-10-10 04:52:06 · 10 answers · asked by MARIA M 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
i love my baby a lot and i dont know what my mom may say
2006-10-10 04:53:17 · update #1
I'm afraid that you haven't given us much to go on, I assume that your
folks don't rate your current partner?
If you awoke one morning and discovered that a loved one has
disappeared, how do you think it would make you feel?
Upset, worried, hurt, especially if you feel that they could've approached you.
Discuss and try to sort out your problems as opposed to running away
from them.
If you have already decided to set up home together, make sure you have
all relevant information, i.e., cost of living day to day, can you afford it etc.,
already have a residential accommodation put in place, so hopefully when
you mention it to your family, then they can see that you are trying to be
independent in a positive way, and for them to be supportive to you.
Good Luck.
Lain.
2006-10-10 05:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a vacation, or permanent? If it's a vacation, then just ask your mom. Then abide by her rules. After all, you are going home after, so don't get yourself into trouble or make her forbid you from seeing him again.
If it's permanent, then here are a few things to consider:
1. Are you legal age or not? No matter how much you love him, there is the chance of your mom or his calling the cops if either of you are underage.
2. Can you support yourselves or not? Love won't pay the bills or put food on the table.
3. Do you have a place to go? You have no guarantee that you can find an apartment or something as quick as you want.
4. Do you have basic necessities? Everything from a bed to someplace to sit, to somewhere to put your clothing, and other things are something you should have before trying to live on your own. You don't want to sleep on the floor, or have your clothes laying in a pile.
If you two are of legal age, and have jobs, then start planning if this is what you both want. While you may get your bed(s) from home, it's doubtful that you will get a couch or dining room table. Start saving money. You will need several thousand dollars to get a place and furnish it with everything you need. Make a list of what you will need, and don't forget the little things like trash cans, silverwear, dinnerwear, glasses, towels, bed sheets, cleaning supplies, paper products (tiolet paper, paper towels, tissues, napkins) and everything else you use on a daily basis.
Then tell your mom that you are moving in with him. She'll be mad, but she will ge over it. She loves you, so if you show her that you are preparred for living without her, she'll know that you are serious. Don't just fly out of the house, but prove that you made an adult decision to live with him.
2006-10-10 12:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!! If you leave w/your bf your running away from the people that love you! Your parents are just being parents... But if you leave, where are you going to go? 'Cause I know for a fact his mom isn't going to be taking you in, she wouldn't like to feed another extra mouth... Wait until your older and have a real job enough where you can pay for you own bills and rent. 'Cause let me tell you girl I pay $1,500.00 for a two small bedroom plus bills. Can you and you and your man afford that?
2006-10-10 12:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by maria * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, unless he is rich already.... Make a list of everything that you need to live on if you were on your own (rent, food, cost of electricity, gas and insurance...etc.) then research to see what the actual cost of moving out is... Make a budget and see if you can even afford to move out... You don't say how old you two are but it is best to finish school and work for the goal of moving out then to just do it and find out later that you have to dumpster dump to find something to eat... A little hard work for the next few years will make the rest of your life much easier!
2006-10-10 12:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by Dan J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on your age and maturity.
If you 18 or older and mature enough to handle that sort of commitment and can make it on your own with just his and your income ...go for it.
You willl have to learn sometime what slf reliance is. Better to have another with you than to do it alone.
2006-10-10 11:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by mommakaye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not unless you are at least 18 but even being a technical adult doesn't mean you are ready to deal with all of lifes adult issues. Don't rush it or you will regret it and regret is hard to live with.
2006-10-10 12:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by Jep 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him, then do it. Run away as far as you can. Take enough money. I am sure your mum will understand. THey will. Good luck.
2006-10-10 11:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by pinky_days 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
go go im going to do the same thing and well if we **** up itz our lifes and we'll leanr form our mistakes hopefully everything goes well
2006-10-10 11:59:00 · answer #8 · answered by iza 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
gurl how old are you????? i bet your man is hella broke
2006-10-10 12:10:48 · answer #9 · answered by brown_eyes_hypnotized 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go away where ever u want with anyone. its ur life *****
2006-10-10 11:54:09 · answer #10 · answered by naresh 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋