A grilfriend of mine who is very demanding and always seeking assurance keeps on trying to seduce her boyfriend she lives with.She puts on sexy undies and the like but to no avail. He'd rather go play on his xbox than with her. She's a good looking big busted gal and most men would jump at the chance.... what's her boyfriends probelm?
2006-10-10 04:41:17 · 29 answers · asked by J B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds to me like they have to have a talk. There is def something going wrong when the boyfriend would rather play xbox than be with his girlfriend. I knew a couple like that and the girl finally ended up breaking up with her bf. She moved on and found a great guy, and its weird but he moved on too and found a great girl and now he doesn't play xbox anymore. They probably aren't the same people they were when they fell in love. It looks to me that they both need to move on. Like you said she is pretty, so she won't have any trouble finding someone new.
2006-10-10 04:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about on a plate! I always thought the chase was the most interesting bit, perhaps this bloke gets bored with the same old , same old, and would prefer to do the running instead!
The good old sayin "Treat em mean keep em keen" really does work - and thats the opposite to what shes doing!
I thought men always liked a hard to get kinda woman?!
2006-10-10 11:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by wavebreakin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not everyone is attracted to the same kind of girl. Or maybe he's just not in the mood. Maybe your friend is not that great in bed, especially with her demanding/always seeking assurance attitude, maybe she's too high maintainance or just plain boring and doesn't care about satisfying him! Maybe he has a hard time keeping it up???
Maybe he's tired of being treated like her sex toy!
Who knows, she's just going to have to ask him, you know... the mature way LOL
2006-10-10 11:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite simply he's taking her for granted. The best thing she can do is to quit trying so hard and back off a bit. I've always found with men that when I take a few steps back they come forward...it always happens without fail - you suddenly appear more alluring and mysterious. You should tell your friend to try it and it this doesn't work she should dump him and find someone who will appreciate her valuable assets!
2006-10-10 11:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by long_luscious_lashes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe her self seeking, demanding attitude has her turned off and he just needs space. Tell her to back off the sexy stuff for a little while and just be into what he's into, xbox, maybe he'll come around. And if he doesn't you can try to turn him on to see if he's gay.
2006-10-10 11:51:12 · answer #5 · answered by Mommyof2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you wana bone her? well he's either batting for the other team, has something better or is a eunach or your girl friend is hideous. I had a lodger that was female and she would do similar she was such a repulsive human being, that even in my weakest drunken moments I would have rather spontaneously combusted than go anywhere near her.
2006-10-10 11:53:39 · answer #6 · answered by crownose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a firm believer in making the man work for his rewards! lol. its all good and well having a great sex life, but i dont think its sexy to come across very needy and desperate. i am sure she doesnt mean to, but that may be the way he sees it. perhaps she should cool off a bit, and he will develop more interest?
2006-10-10 15:51:29 · answer #7 · answered by NikkiJane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, she needs to get her self a new man. If my boyfriend was doing that to me, I would freak right out. Has she come to you upset about this situation? If so, tell her to talk to him and say she feels like she isn't good enough and doesnt feel apreciated. If he still rather play with is video games, she needs to move on.
2006-10-10 11:53:37 · answer #8 · answered by . . * h o n e y * . . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's got a problem if he prefers video games over his girl. It sounds like it's time for her to find a new boyfriend,,,someone that will at least pay her some attention.
2006-10-10 11:44:40 · answer #9 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's behaving correctly, as men should and is not an advantage-taking opportunist or a selfish pig like most men.
2006-10-10 11:43:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋