my love just left me last month....i m totally broken,,alone,,i have my trust gone over everything,,,,i m becoming a psychological patient....
plz if anyone can give me good advice..i will be thankful...i m living out of my country as a student.....i cant share with anyone,,,,
2006-10-10 03:54:46 · 14 answers · asked by alone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The best thing to do is to stay busy. Find some volunteer work you might enjoy doing like volunteering in a hospital, nursing home, animal shelter, etc. The more useful you feel, the less lonely you will feel because staying busy gives you a purpose in life.
2006-10-10 04:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by Me, Myself & I 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more time u are alone, the more time u will think about it.
Dont let it to be a self-pity.
Hey, I'm sure someone better will come by.
I know you're strong enough to go thru this process.
Have a big cry and move on. Don't let the breakup things affected you. Be glad that he's once part of your life, making you happy. Someone else will be there for you soon, to complete your life, just not him.
Cheer up, okay =)
2006-10-10 11:04:59 · answer #2 · answered by CindyHoneyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are alone in life...................but that may not be a bad thing. Every one is alone like you. It's time you find out who you are. and you do that by what life or god ask you to do.
What that? Life will test you and by taking the test and face up to the challenge you will change with these test. All the while you will find what you can do. Meet new people and network with people. Find a few "really trusting people " you can call fiend and keep working till you meet that person you should have be together.
if you fail to take that road you know what will happen? Nothing. just like your life. you just get old and nothing happen. Go for it girl.
2006-10-10 11:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seeing a counselor is not a bad idea. but you've got to realize that your life cannot and does not revolve around one person. you have got to get back into a routine doing things that you would normally do, and perhaps start a new hobby. of course a broken heart takes time to heal, but if you surround yourself with positive things, it makes the healing process a little easier. you mention that you are a student. most educational institutions have support groups, you should look into attending and meeting new people who also have common interests.
2006-10-10 11:03:38 · answer #4 · answered by sickofmakinthemgo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
giv them the space that they need an they mite come bk 2 u wen they relise they dun wrong thing just go out an make new friend u never no it mite av been for the best that u split ..good lucky
2006-10-10 11:10:46 · answer #5 · answered by pollypocket150 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how ya feel..mine just woke up one day and decided it wouldn't work..i know the alone feeling all to well right now..i have no advice..just take it one day at a time..sooner or later the feelings will subside. not go away but it won't be so umbearable..
2006-10-10 10:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by sherry p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bein alone is just a season we all go thru, take advantage of the time, use it to become somebody who will atracked the type of people u enjoy
2006-10-10 11:04:46 · answer #7 · answered by menguss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is not everything, you have to face still more things in your life so don't be alone and make friends who can overcome you pain.
2006-10-10 11:01:35 · answer #8 · answered by lovely g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and meet other people. It hurts, but you will eventually get over it.
2006-10-10 10:56:59 · answer #9 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray ur loneliness to god and try to meet friends and join any club to make u busy
2006-10-10 11:04:06 · answer #10 · answered by rare_1428 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋