what are the chances of getting preg???

Question

heres the situation. hate condoms, cant get an appt yet for b/c and we have intercourse but he pulls out when he goes. have one child cant stand to have another...

its not that i cant stand to have another., i really would like to but we had a hard time with our marriage with the first preg. and we still are not really fiancally ready for another one either. i didnt mean to sound so cold. i was just asking , you dont know answers until you ask question. so thanks.

i know. i tried to have my tubes tied but they wouldnt let me because i was under 25 and didint have more than 3 kids. that is what i was going to do. yes i know how to please my man.

Answer 1

Until you are on the pill regularly, you can NOT afford to have unprotected sex. If you keep doing what you are doing, you WILL get pregnant. "Pulling Out" is essentialy worthless; there is enough sperm in precum to impregnate you.

Answer 2

Pulling out doesn't work - my younger brother is living, walking proof of that (Mom always warned us). Wait until you can get on the pill, or suck it up and use condoms until you can; or have you tried spermicide and/or diaphragms?

If you hate condoms that much, don't have sex until you're on the pill for a month. It's the *only* way to guarantee you won't get pregnant.

And, remember, even the pill isn't 100% effective. Nothing is.

Answer 3

Um just a little update there is this thing called "prenut or pre-ejaculation" If you have ever given head before, you will notice that the man spurts out a little right before he initially comes. This is the same stuff that makes you preggo.. So....lets put it together. Yes you can still get preggo and that is the worst method I have ever heard of. Get over it and use a condom or dont have sex @ all. PERIOD!

Answer 4

Well...here's the deal..if you don't want another child & won't use condoms then DON'T HAVE SEX!!! I have a 2 year old from pullingout. It is not an effective method of bc. Pre-ejaculation can get you just as pregnant as the 'real' stuff. If you don't want any more kids then don'thave sex, cause even sex with any form of bc(even pills) CAN result in pregnancy.

Answer 5

Then use condoms!!! Don't be foolish and risk getting pregnant, him pulling out is not birth control. He has precum and that contains sperm, enough to get you pregnant. If you just can't stand condoms, then don't have sex until you get on the pill. But remember the pill isn't protecting you from any STDs, you have to protect yourself, you are a mother and need to be responsible if not for your sake then your child's.

Answer 6

My first and second pregnancy was from pre-ejaculate.( this comes out soon after you start having intercourse with a man. It helps to lubricate and is PACKED with little sperms!)

He doesn't have to ejaculate inside you for you to become pregnant. The chances are less if he doesn't but it isn't very effective means of birth control.

Good luck!

Answer 7

First and foremost you should continue using condoms until you get your birth control if you don't want another baby. Don't give up condoms just because you don't like the feel of them. Think about the long term effects if your choices.

Answer 8

here's something they taught us in school that you obviously have forgotten the only form of safe sex is abstinence if neither of you can wait to get an appointment there are other ways of sexual gratification lets see how I can put this delicately mutual masturbation or oral sex. I don't think any one has ever gotten pregnant by doing those.

Answer 9

well appreantly 25% of women fall pregnant using the pull out method

Answer 10

OK then buy vaginal inserts with spermicide. They work too and you don't even know that you put it in you. They sell them buy the condoms.
Or dust deal with having another child.