he is a great guyt he is 25 he has 1 kid already but ineed help with some creative ideas on how i cold tell him /and im scard he is going to get mad help?
2006-10-10 03:33:22 · 22 answers · asked by sara m 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'm 19 now but was 18 when i got pregnant. I was also kind of unsure of how to tell my b/f. But if you weren't scared of having sex with him how could you be scared to tell him your pregnant. It's not like it's all your fault you got pregnant, he had something to do with that. Just sit down and tell him. You'll feel much better after wards. Don't wait to long. Good luck.
2006-10-10 03:48:01 · answer #1 · answered by teeka 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congratutations and Best Wishes.
As for your answer, tell him directly what you know, how you know it and how far along you are so that he can digest the information rapidly and avoid making stupid questions. Tell him what you are planning to do about the pregancy and leave it up to him to tell you what he is going to do about the pregnancy. It doesn't matter if he gets mad. There is nothing to get mad about. You are not asking him for anything. You're just telling him like it is. Don't complicate matters by assuming that this means you have to get married. It is too late to be thinking about appearances now. You need to be thinking about the baby and what the baby needs and that is you healthy and happy. It may seem that your boyfriend is the key to that happiness but that is an illusion. Your happiness comes from within and you chose to share it with your boyfriend. That is what you are doing here, sharing your happiness with your boyfriend. Perhaps he will be happy too, but if he is not, don't let him get you down. This is still a good thing if you want it to be. Good luck.
2006-10-10 03:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 19:08:57 · answer #3 · answered by amass 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him! I am 16 and so is my boy. I am pregnant, too (two months). I pulled him aside at school today and told him, and he was totally cool. He realized that there was going to have to be some kind of big change...heck a baby is change. Especially if he has a kid already, he should be downright happy that there is another baby on the way.
2006-10-10 04:05:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he gets mad, remind him that it takes 2 to make a baby. Even if you missed a pill or your patch fell off, he should have been using condoms.
I'd just sit him down and tell him straight out. If you think he'll get angry, you might not want to do anything like giving him a positive pregnancy test gift wrapped.
2006-10-10 03:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by S. O. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if he already has one child then i don't think he is going to get that upset. You could make a baby dinner. like baby shrimp, baby corn, etc.. Or you could make a banner that says congrats daddy to be. if you really think about it you could come up with something creative. I wish you the best of luck. Congrats! Just be honest!
2006-10-10 03:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by babeydede 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him! Dont do it in a public place because you are going to want some privacy to talk about it. And dont try to do it in a creative way if you arent sure he is going to be happy about it.
2006-10-10 03:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by katybeth212001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i would either show him the HPT or the paper you got from the dr. saying that you are pg... I am sure he will be excited. JUST TELL HIM ALREADY before he gets mad at you for not telling him.
2006-10-10 04:02:20 · answer #8 · answered by DO IT! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure on how he will react, don't do any creative cutsy way of telling him because if he reacts poorly you will be dissapointed and hurt. Just sit quietly and tell him. Good luck
2006-10-10 03:36:56 · answer #9 · answered by shrimpseys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question would be is he the baby daddy? And if he is be real with him i mean just tell him that you really want to biuld a family with him and hope that he see's it through. i mean if he cares enough about you he will take time to think about it.
2006-10-10 03:40:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋