She lives in a different state, so I know he hasnt seen her, but i dont see why they should be in touch at all. I don't know how intimate the messages are, but his friend told me they are pretty strong. What do i do?
2006-10-10 03:22:22 · 17 answers · asked by michelle s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
confront him....and tell him either this "texting" stops or he can go be with her because you wont stand for this
2006-10-10 03:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by kimbersweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only should you be worried you should be pissed off. That is disrespectful to you big time. If he wants to have contact of any kind with his ex then he should make sure that you are secure with it. He could do this by filling you in on their conversations and text messages. If he is not willing to do that then there is a very good reason for it. Don't let anyone disrespect you and make you feel insecure. People treat you the way you allow them to treat you. Don't allow it!!!!
2006-10-10 10:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by Laura D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would his friend know exactly how intimate these messages are? Well It would definatly set off a red flag in my eyes but trust your gut thats about all you can do
2006-10-10 10:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by treez1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deal with this right away and out in the open. Don't be hostile or blaming, but talk seriously about it with him. This is a very bad sign and you need to be reassured. Otherwise, give this relationship some deep thought. You don't want to be foolish.
2006-10-10 10:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to confront him.
"You can't have your cake and eat it"
He needs to choose what he wants, it is really disrespectful to you and your relationship.
Confront him and see what he says. And if they are intimate messages, show him the door. Do not allow yourself to be treated like that.
2006-10-10 10:25:20 · answer #5 · answered by Wee Eck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lay down the law sister!!!! Normally I would say hold on until you get all the facts, but, if his friends are telling you stuff --it's a big deal. Tell him the buck stops here or you are gone!!!
2006-10-10 10:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by bunya00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you know about it, and ask him to stop. You can also contact her and ask her to back off of your relationship. If he does not agree then you will need to find yourself in a healthier relationship. He is destroying your trust and causing you fear. Take care!
2006-10-10 10:26:57 · answer #7 · answered by whrldpz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think your man is cheating....then most likely he is. Find yourself someone who is more respectful of your feelings. Or better yet....just take out your cell phone and start texting your exes.
2006-10-10 10:25:12 · answer #8 · answered by lildiesel2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn! Do you have to even ask this question?
Ofcourse you should be worried! what if she has a few days off coming up and they decide to meet for "lunch" or something....
Nip -it -in- the- bud if I were you!
2006-10-10 10:30:10 · answer #9 · answered by SNVL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should confront him about the messages ask him how would he feel if he was n ur situtation and yes u should b worried
2006-10-10 10:26:15 · answer #10 · answered by creecree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't let it worry me. But I'd be gone so fast I wouldn't even leave a shadow!
2006-10-10 10:28:26 · answer #11 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋