My sister is 15 & her b/f is 17. Anyway, her boyfriend left a comment about another girl on myspace.
My sister has been dating him for 5-6 months but talking to him for about a year. I don't think my sister has seen the comment or she'd be mad! This is actually not the first time he has left comments on other girls. In his comment he was calling the girl sexy & he was saying that he wanted to see her real bad (she lives 3 states away) & that he wanted to come visit her & take her to the prom. I don't want my sister to take I am getting in her business but I think she needs to know. He seems to be a lady's man...everyone thinks he is sooo cute so she is always trying to keep girls away. I like him...I just don't want my sister to go through this. What do you think??
2006-10-10 03:02:01 · 21 answers · asked by beachbum26 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is your duty as her sister to tell her what is going on. Family is family! Blood is thicker than water!
2006-10-10 03:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by sexycat_1984 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is not ready to be in a committed relationship. He should let girls know that he simply wants to date and that there will be others, so nobody is in a one-on-one with him and has no expectations for it. It's wrong for him to let your sister think it's a committed and exclusive relationship when he feels like seeing other girls. YES!!!!! She should know this about him. Let her read the comment. If she isn't ready to share him, then she needs to move on to another relationship that will be exclusive. BUT---she should consider how much fun it is to date more than one guy, too! She's only 15, no need to tie herself down yet.
2006-10-10 10:08:29 · answer #2 · answered by DivaDynamite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should show your sister what you have seen on mY SPACE. it might not be anything to worry about if the girl is 3 states away. Hes just running his mouth. Then after you show her,let your sister decide for herself if she wants to deal with that type of behavior from him. She needs to make some mistakes on her own,,the only thing you can do is guide her in the right direction.
2006-10-10 10:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At that age the boy friend and girl fiend is open and close all the time. The real question is how is your relationship with your sister? If she is smart then tell her by emailing her and showing the website to get on and tell her he is a player and there are a lot of guy out there doing that so don't trust him. play with him but don't trust him.
2006-10-10 10:14:49 · answer #4 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister and show her the proof of how you found out. If she already knows that he has a reputation with women, then i'm pretty sure she will believe you. In case she doesn't, show her how you found out. Her b/f apparently has intentions of cheating and if you don't want to see her go through this, then you need to let her know what you've found out.
2006-10-10 10:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell your sister i would want my sister to let me know if i was headed for a brick wall. you can hurt her now or he can hurt her a lot worse later on. she may be mad with you for a minute but in the long run she will thank you for it.if you love your sister tell her. she is too young to start life out being with a jack *** who doesn't appreciate her.
2006-10-10 10:26:03 · answer #6 · answered by ladypp3085@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your sister. She may get mad at you for butting in, but in the end when he hurts her..you'll be there for her. If this guy was so into her, he wouldn't be leaving messages for other girls. He's an Ahole...and your sister deserves better..
good Luck
2006-10-10 10:06:42 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to sign up. Then she can see for herself. But as a sister you should tell her only what you can prove. that way she doesn't get mad at you.
2006-10-10 11:44:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they might be setting you up.
some people play head games and do stuff like this to see what reaction they get out of their target.
I'd ask her if she read Johnnie's myspace lately. He wrote some nice things about her and drop it.
2006-10-10 10:11:16 · answer #9 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is easy, since you have gotten the proof in writing, all you have to do is log onto it, call sis, and say hey look at this...what do you think? and let her read and make her own decisions...you just guide her to it.
2006-10-10 10:06:15 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋