She always like to hang around me in school but recently i found she was attracted to girls. What shoul I do? She asked me out. I'm not into girls though. shoul I stop hanging around with her? but I want her around.
2006-10-10 03:00:49 · 21 answers · asked by Amy T. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is no different than if you have a male friend that asks you out!
2006-10-10 03:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bite the bullet. Tell her that you don't want to lose her friendship but you are not into girls. Tell her you love hanging out with her but can only do it on the condition she understands ye are now and will only ever be friends. Make sure she knows you have no problem with her being a lesbian and that you will support her in any way you can as a friend.
2006-10-10 10:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to stop hanging around with her. As long as you are both clear about how you feel and there is no pressure put on you by her to be with her, there's no reason why the friendship has to change.
We are all different, its what makes the world go round. Don't let sexuality spoil a good friendship.
As I said, lay the boundaries and the rules and stick to them
2006-10-10 10:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by Wee Eck 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might be a lesbian!!! Try it.
Just kidding. Here is the question: Would it change the fact you were a lesbian and she was straight and you ask her out, How would you feel she turn you down.
You answer is how you should act in response to her action.
Friendship cross the line if it get sexual. The trust is different from one of respect to one of demand. stay friend she will be a good friend to you if you are with her.
2006-10-10 10:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No just let her know and tell her that u like her as a friend but that ur not attracted to girls like she is, Dont treat her any different, She will understand. IF she dont then u know what to do.
2006-10-10 10:11:33 · answer #5 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let her know gently that you are not into girls, but that you would like to be her friend. Real friends don't care if you are straight or gay. They like you as a person. Just be honest with her and then it is up to her to respond as a friend.
2006-10-10 10:03:36 · answer #6 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so what? my best friend Jenny is a lesbian..i knew that before i was even friends w/ her...and i told her straight up as long as you never make a move,we will be cool..but she knows im strickly men.so it doesnt bother me..alot of other people think that because we are friends.that im a lesbian too, but screw what others say..so w/e..dont quit being her friend.because she told you the truth about herself..good luck ..
2006-10-10 10:03:42 · answer #7 · answered by *~Angel_Eyes~* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and tell her. No you dont hve to stop hanging with her just tell heryour not into girls. If she dont acept it then she is not really your friend she want to get with you.
2006-10-10 10:05:20 · answer #8 · answered by baker_shay_nancy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your friend and there is no reason not to spend time with her. Let her know you are flattered but not interested. Help her find someone. Overall, being gay should not change who your friends are.
2006-10-10 10:03:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
nope..dont stop hanging round with her. if shes lesbian then she is. but tell her too her limit about u & her.if she likes to have gf then its her right but tell to her that u like her as ur bestfriend and bestfriends should stay as it is.
2006-10-10 10:05:12 · answer #10 · answered by carl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋