Why does a mother that knows who the father is of her child..why does she wait 4 years to tell him and make?

Question

Why does a mother that knows who the father is of her child..why does she wait 4 years to tell him and make
the guy she was with at the time believe it was his child for about 2 years until he got a dna test? can someone tell me why someone would do that? She still tell the real father that he is lucky she told him cause she said she didn't have to tell him.

Answer 1

Many, many women have children fathered by one man and raised by another

Answer 2

I don't know. I think some women do some VERY weird things. I have a cousin who didn't know he'd fathered a child when he was 19 until 6 years ago when his daughter begged her Mom to tell her who her father was. This girl was a young teenager and looks just like her Dad, my cousin. She's living closer to him and is in college in LA where he lives.

That's not the only story I know of. I think people are raised without integrity and it just permeates every area of their lives. Plus, it's probably a power thing and sometimes even a shame thing. Don't know, but it is surely weird.

Answer 3

Why don't men use condoms or have a vasectomy so they don't have children with any chick who will spread her legs for them?

Accepting responsibility goes both ways.

Answer 4

Some people are just bit****. She probably wanted the guy she was with and that was a way to keep him.