My hubby's driving frightens me?

Question

The other day my dad and I were riding in his car going to the auto store, he got caught up there because of imcompetence and Josh wanted to make up for lost time, he was running yellow lights. My dad said they were red but I was yellow, I was riding shotgun.

Then a truck pulled out in front of him and was a jackass. Josh got up to 100 just in passing him whcih was not needed. Josh says it wasn't 100 but I saw his needed pinned. He drove nutty the whole way home. He already has gotten two tickets.My dad said that he doesn't care for the sh*t that Josh was pulling with me in the car, he's afraid I'll get hurt.
I get nervous w. Josh is driving and I have a tenency to get chest pains. randomly and understress But Josh won't listen. He bitches that I get too up tight. What do I do? Sorry for the length!

I'm close to just not getting in the car w. him anymore. What kinds scares me now is my DAD has something to say. I've learned with him, that he knows, somehow he just knows. This also makes for friction that is unspoken between the two.

Answer 1

Tell your husband your life is more important than his feelings, and either you drive or you don't go. Period. Thank God for your dad, he cares.

Answer 2

Okay. My ex drove like a bat out of hell too. It really scared me and he knew this. Sad to say I dumped him, but not for that! Then my cousin Matt drives like that too. I forget how many tickets that he has gotten already and he's only 18. I really don't know what to tell you other than don't ride with them anymore, or just tell them. It scares you I know, and that could cause problems.....

Answer 3

Its too late to do anything of the event because its past tense, but on the other hand next time your in the Car, take a whack at wheeza.

Answer 4

I have no easy answer. I have ridden with young women who drove wildly cutting in and out of traffic, when angry. I just did not ride with them any more.