2006-10-10 02:18:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
To Sharon Cox...don't respond negatively you don't know the story...maybe she did use a condom and it broke or maybe she has been with the guy for years! I am a 22 year old with an 8 year old!!!! Yeah I had a child when I was 13, and I raised him all by myself, so those of you who have something bad to say just shut up, I'm sure this girl is having hard enough time with the situation...last thing she needs is you people dogging her!!!!!
Anyway hun. Just tell him. Are you scared? Is that why you haven't told him yet??? He needs to know especially if he IS the father. The two of you need to come to an agreement on what your going to do for the future. If he gets mad and leaves...so be it he's not man enough. Yet he was the one that made the choice to lay with you. You did not make the child on your own. I wish you the best with all the choices you make from here on out. I hope to God that you choose to keep the child and not have an abortion, but then again it's your life. And don't let any of these a s s h o l e s try to bring you down!!! Like I said I had a child at the age of 13, I raised him on MY OWN, I had lots of support. Yes it is hard, but to be honest, I think of him as my little angel because I was heading down a very bad path until I had him...I turned my life around! Godd Luck and God Bless you and the baby to be!!!!
2006-10-10 02:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by sparkles 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
He has a right to know now! The worst he can say is that he doesn't want the baby, doesn't want to be a father at this time, get an abortion, or who's the father?. So since you now have those in your head.....just tell him. You should also let him know what your intentions are about the pregnancy. He will now have to pay child support. He may be p*ssed about that, but like you......the two of you should have kept your pants zipped up when you didn't have any protection to prevent a pregnancy!! You also might want to kiss your childhood bye-bye because from now on you will have to act like an adult and care for that child. A child having a baby......it seems so sad to me.
2006-10-10 02:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by yokrem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you have a plan before you tell him. Decide now whether or not you are keeping the baby, giving it up for adoption, etc. That way, he can't change your mind about things. Be sure that you can handle any answer he will give you - positive or negative. Be ready for him to get upset - maybe have someone with you, like your mom, who can be on your side about this issue.
Most of all, be certain of what you want. This is a huge change in your live and his.
Good luck.
2006-10-10 02:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by Cara M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be honest with him none of this what do you think about kids questions.Just be your self get him in the quiet place and say you have some good news to tell him. then just tell him with a smile .as a man will look for your reaction .if yours is negative he will take that on board .How ever if he runs of don't worry as he just needs to think and get his head round it .if he loves you this will certainly be the time to find out .although you are young your life will need to change and his there needs to be no more i and change it for a us .communication is the key .love the child with all you've got and you will be OK remember the child is apart of you look in the moor and smile
good luck
2006-10-10 02:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound pretty calm for the circumstances that you are in. At sixteen, the responsibility of raising a child would have been devastating to me. You need to tell the father as soon as possible. There are many plans to be made, money to be saved and decisions to be made together.
Oh, and next time use birth control...and a condom.
2006-10-10 02:25:36 · answer #5 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you parents okay with it? If so tell you boyfriend and together make the right decision for the 3 of you. Good luck with everything . Makeing a baby is easy, but taking care of it its kind of hard . I am 5 months pregnant and my husband to be just left me because he needed time for himself. and hes not 16. Take care of yourself and i hope everything will be fine!
2006-10-10 02:50:23 · answer #6 · answered by Raluca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hard part is over (familiy) it should be easier telling your boy. Just callhim and ask him to meet you somewhere you feel comfortable and can talk to him without being disturbed. Just let it out, tell him your family know, explain the situation and see what his reaction is, work it from there, see if he offers you support or runs away like a coward, then he was no good.
2006-10-10 02:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by Baby Ruth habla español 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i assume one concept could be to have them sit down close to one yet another, supervised by you of direction, and play with toys. They dont' could be sitting quite close jointly yet interior an analogous room as close as conveniently achievable. She is afraid for some reason, perhaps she did get hit by a toy. the two way, new calmer studies could provide up her reaction. The extra solid studies she has with him the the calmer she'll develop into. solid success.
2016-10-16 01:00:14 · answer #8 · answered by kigar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let YOUR Dad tell His Dad. NOBODY but y'alls parents need to be involved right now. Understand that there could be DNA tests done on the baby and you and the boy, to determine who the real father is, regardless of what you say. But, don't try to do anything on your own. Let your parents handle it. YOUR parents may need a lawyer, to make sure the boy, helps pay for the baby's upbringing.
2006-10-10 02:29:10 · answer #9 · answered by thewordofgodisjesus 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You mean you are 16 and you already have a son?? OMG!!!! Well, just talk to him about where babies come from and that mommy made a huge mistake by not waiting till she was mature and married before having another baby. Oh, my!
2006-10-10 03:51:24 · answer #10 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋