Is there any women who just seem to attract pervs?

Question

Im always being hit on by pervs,today for instance ive just started a cleaning job and Im at this 83yr old mans house when all he talks about is sex,he tells me about all the 30+yr old women hes helped out sexually,then he turns to me and asks if i would like a private arrangment with him to earn more money,he freaked me out totally,he even grabbed my boob and asked what size i was.But a few weeks ago a man approached me in tescos came right out and said what beautiful assets you have can i take you for dinner he gave me his business card and i instantly phoned his boss and reported him.Are there women that send out the wrong signals to men or am i just unlucky .I never dress provocative,im always in jeans and usually long sleeve tee-shirts.Can some one help my understand.

Answer 1

it's bad of the old boy to dis-respect you in that way, you are there to help him not to get touched up and propositioned, that's for the pervert in the shop, good for you i praise your quick thinking, now had he approached you and said " excuse me sorry i couldn't help but notice you please would you consider dinner one evening here's my card" but to say what he said, I'm with you, i would like to think i respect woman i treat woman well, i open doors, i actually rushed a hot drink last week so 5 old ladies could sit down together, and they said not many Gentleman left nower days. and still i have no Girlfriend. there is no justice in this world. Take care sweet.xxx.

Answer 2

People seem to meet certain types. I am not sure why but they do - the same personality or type seems to come up repeatedly in someone's life and they seem to stay there until you deal with them.

As for the Pervs there is a lot of them out there and it may be that you just by being female will run into some for the rest of your life .

Learn to deal with them - Do not be afraid of them do not allow them to freak you out.

Have clearly defined borders and do not be afraid to call the police and remember somtimes the threat of the police is all you need -

A simple "buddy do that again and I will send you to a-s-s banging prison for the next"15 yrs - The may call you Ken but they will treat you like Barbie.

Yes you will be wrongfully called a bit-ch and all of that but I have found if you make an example out of one person you can coast on that for years.

Other than that good luck - but the more self confident and assertive you are the less people will try to intimidate you or take advantage of you - Oh and remember calm scares the crap out of people

Answer 3

Well as a guy and former nightclub bouncer I have seen tons of guys do these routines...We call it the shotgun effect. Basically we say something very rude to say 15 women...Odds are at least 1 girl has accepted this deal. So because of 1 girl lacking in morals and good judgment the rest have to suffer. That old guy prolly got his rocks off once and that guy in club prolly has gotten some takers on the business card approach. It's nothing you do..It's just because you are a female.

Answer 4

This is an easy one to answer. It depends on many factors.

1. Men think about sex every five minutes of their life. It's a scientific fact. That means that any hot woman (and I'm assuming you are hot) turns them on and are looked at from the chest up or the chest down or the bottom up. It's the way men are and it hasn't changed in hundreds of years so I doubt it will change anytime soon.

2. If you are attractive and if you wear revealing or tight-fitting clothing then I guarantee you that you will be hit on by men of all ages. Age is just a number. Men are still men and they want it bad and often. Plus, if you have three kids then that's also hot. Here is what I mean. To many men, three kids means you have sex and are probably dang good at it. After all, you've had sex at least three times. You are now one of those challenges that they want to nail and see just how good you really are. Keep in mind that they could care less about a relationship and they definitely don't want to spend the money to be the new daddy but they do want to do you.

3. Many men watch adult materials, go to strip clubs, and when they see someone that resembles a fantasy then they immediately work what they can to make that fantasy into a reality.

4. Let me put it to you this way. If you have a nice tight body, wear tight jeans, wear a tight-fitting shirt, and even if these clothes are cute and fit you well and make you attractive, then you have just opened yourself wide open for men to want to "hit that" (for lack of a better word). I guarantee that if you showed up with curlers in your hair, no makeup, wearing an "old lady robe", and hadn't bathed in a few days then you probably wouldn't be getting the same attention. But guys are guys and we are thinking about sex every five minutes so.....

5. It's not about signals. It's about sex. It's about men being horny. It's about wanting a "piece" when they can get it. I'm sorry to be so blunt but it's the truth.

6. If you are young and attractive then the older men probably do not feel you would think twice about "doing" them. Remember, they don't want you to sleep with them in the literal sense. They want you to "do" them in the "lets get it on" sense, but, they feel that there isn't a chance as long as there are so many other guys your own age who are just as attractive as you are and that you would probably prefer, so, the guy you are referring to may have tried to work an arrangement to get you interested in his money. It sounds like he used the only bargaining tool he had - his money - to try and get you to have sex with him. He probably figured "What else do I have?"

7. Now for the obvious response to your question. If someone grabs you and you did not want them to grab you or touch you or even say sexual things to you (especially not offering money for sex) then you should report them. You need to protect yourself at all times. You come first. Just because a man is horny and thinking sex every 5 minutes does not give him the right to take things into his own hands. So make sure you contact the authorities if you feel it is the right thing to do.

Answer 5

you must be beautiful, can i apologise for those double Y chromosomed idiots who harrassed you, i am ashamed to be a man sometimes.

They probably just dont get that you are more than a pair of boobs and dont know how to approach you civily and in a manner that will appear attractive to you!

nice on with the business card dude!! and dont worry there are still some good guys in the world

Answer 6

Its not U only there are a lot of men that dont respect woman, some woman to but you just happen to be there and dont see all the other people that are approached by pervs,

Answer 7

If you found the guy enourmously attractive. Would your reaction have been the same? Asked a different way.. Is there ever a time that you would like a guy to notice your boobs and comment even though he is a stranger?

Some guys are just rude unfortunately. It happens to all of us.

Answer 8

It's a shame you reported the guy who gave you his card, bet he was mingin' otherwise you'd have been flattered. How open was he to give you his business details and you just grassed him up. No wonder men are unsure about how to approach women, the poor things can't win.

Answer 9

you are obviously an attractive woman and some men (and women) are just so pathetically over confident and under intelligent and unable to communicate at an adult level that they feel this kind of behaviour is acceptable. I wouldn't worry about it too much they probably are suicidal self loathers under the brash cocky exterior

Answer 10

hello ,
men you act pervs are either maniac or doesnt get enough sex from his partner , if you come accross a person you looks at your assets , just dont look back at him and continue your work.
and if he passes a comment than just reply saying " do you need help "

hope have wrote something worth

rgds

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