OK, Me and this girl have been involved in a great relationship for the past two years, im 23 and she is 22, i've never had such a great relationship ever before it's like were meant to be together. Recently things got a little sour and she decided that she needs a break to decide what she wants it's been a month and I had a hard time respectig what she wanted I kept calling and texting her which I wasnt supposed to do, then last week we met up on two occasions and both times led to sexual contact and I still am getting the same answers from her that she is very confused and doesnt know what to do...she says she still loves me and always will but she really doesnt know what she wants to do she is assuring me she isnt seeing anybody else and she just needs some space to get her head straight. and theese times I saw her recently it felt like we were really connecting and having a great time. she promised me that if I just give her the space she needs that she'll come back. please help
2006-10-10 02:05:05 · 6 answers · asked by digdoggy299 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The thing that is really bothering me the most is if she really doesn't want to get back with me does anybody think she would have made the effort to agree to meet me and espicially let it get more involved and lead to sexual contact?? Meaning what should I think of what happened between us those times we met and it led to that? Should I consider that as a good sign or is she just playing me?
2006-10-10 03:01:06 · update #1
Good Morning,
Thats a good question, but the answers are many possibilities. She sounds as though she is not able to commit to a relationship with you obviously, and that is perplexing! Ask yourself what am I doing to cause her to need such space? Then begin to look inward at yourself before you begin to anylze her. Are you pushing to much of yourself on to her, pursuing her with to much ZEAL. She apparently has an independant streak in her and thats not always a bad a thing, but it bothers independant people when others are all up in their business at times, especially in relationships.
You are probably going to have to force yourself to back off and cool off with her, to see if this is accurate. By backing off and cooling it she might actually respond positively by coming around again. Just remember stop being clingy if you have been, I see that as a thing she would not appreciate at all. Be steadfast, strong and silent for awhile and watch her come back around.
Good luck my friend and God`s Speed to your being reunited.
Jim
2006-10-10 02:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let her string you along , women are great at that! She needs time so why is she wanting booty calls, that makes it more confusing. I f she wants time then give it to her, go out with the guys and have a good time. Act carefree you know you still love her , but if she sees you not sitting around waiting on her every move it will show her a sign of independence. Women really like that .I f she knows you are sitting there waiting, she will be turned off women like a challeng it keeps us going.... Hop e I have been some help...Good Luck!!!! Take my advice it works
2006-10-10 02:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by Candace D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might come back to and she might not but give her the space, you could be just pushing her away more by bugging her.But still go out and have fun dont set around and wait by phone for her to call you and not be with another girl
2006-10-10 02:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by a1_friend64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a thought- she may have some fears related to commitment or may have been burned with committing herself to someone. She may have issues related to her own self and is just trying to work those out rather than having anything to do with you. She may have pressures or frustrations and it is coming through the relationship. Again, just a thought.
2006-10-10 02:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by mfcarroll1102 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel!! my bf just did this to me a couple of days ago because his best friend past away he told me to wait while he get's over his death. i've called him to make sure that he is ok but no answer. i havent called him in 2 days. i know that it's hard but if she wants her space then just give it to her and see what happens!!! best of luck
2006-10-10 02:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be she was in a con fused state
2006-10-10 02:16:45 · answer #6 · answered by chowdary c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋