ugh!!! what do i do!!! poeple are so ugh!!! annoying and confusing!?

Question

ok heres my story i live in this small asss town with all these really mean and careless people i hate living here and yes im in high school i wanna be somewhere else my ma knows im unhappy and she knows how these kids are but she doesnt ever try to find a better option like letting me live in the city with a family member or something!!! im really having a hard time is there anyone that can atleast advise me and plese dont give me some stupid response im turning into this really mean and angry person and i dont like who im turning into this is getting really hard for me....i also dont sleep at night im like really depressed and i dont know what else to do i cry outta no where i need some psychology help..

Answer 1

When you finsih high school get a job or go away to college. Often problems that seem external are the result of internal issues. So try combatting the "Im turning into a mean person" by taking up meditation or deep relaxation. Once you are mor ein tune with yourself you will find these other people will have less effect on your state of well being. Remember there are annoying people where-ever you may go and live. Moving somehwere else where your support networks (family and friends) are weaker may be jumping out of the frying pan and into the fire.

Answer 2

Unfortunately, there will always be people who annoy you. You can't depend on anyone or anything, other than yourself, for happiness, or you'll never find it. Too many people think, "if I could only make more money, I'll be happy", or "if I could only lose 10 more pounds, then I'll be happy". True happiness is wanting what you have, not having what you want. Can you talk to your school counselor? Have you sat down and had a serious talk about this with your mom, without getting angry at her for not letting you move? If you are depressed and not sleeping, you do need psychological help - there is no shame in that, and it can really help. There is no reason that you should be so miserable. I hope you talk to someone and find the help you need, as well as find happiness! I've been in a similar situation, and I know how hopeless and frustrating it can be.

Answer 3

You are going to have to make the best of it. And realize that after you graduate from high school you can leave, and go off to college. Growing up in a small town is not the worst thing that could happen to you. It is probably a much safer alternative right now with all of the nonsense going on in the world today. Do you have a trusted friend, or family member you can speak with. Or you need to tell you mom you are depressed and feel as though you need to speak with a counselor. Try your guidance counselor they are trained and are bound by laws of confidentiality, the only things that they have to discuss with others are threats of suicide or threats to harm others. Perhaps you could find a local church that has a youth group, that would be a good place to find chidlren and young adults with christian values and less likely to be hurtful and mean. I am sorry you are having such a hard time, growing up is hard. Try to not allow these people who are acting so hateful to get to you, and when they do, don't let them know they are hurting your feelings. People who act like this have little or no self esteem and are probably jealous of you . Keep your chin up and do your best. My guess is in 5 years this wont matter as much. And you should set goals for yourself to be the best you can be, and in five years look back and these people will probably be the same loosers they are now. Please talk to your mom and let her know how you are feeling without arguing with her, this may be the best she can do right now. Good luck and God Bless.

Answer 4

You want psychological help, and you should have it. First, ask your mother, one of your adult relatives that you think so much of in the city; if that doesn't work, then your clergy person, or get the phone book out and call the mental health department in the nearest larger town or city that has one.

My gut tells me you are spoiled, and acting bratty and wanting attention. By your letter, I can tell you are not doing well in school, so perhaps you are lazy about that. Maybe you think it's time you get out and make your own life with your bf, but neither of you have an education for a way to make money; but how the He!! do I or anyone else in here know what's happening. It's not good, whatever it is, and you need to accept some help.

Answer 5

I think what you are feeling sounds pretty much part of being a teenager, everyone is ugh, annoying, and confusing when you're a teen.
I think you need to understand that these strong emotions are going to pass, can't tell you when, but try to remember that.
Talk to your mom, and I mean talk, don't start by making her feel that you are demanding change, or that it is all her fault, or shouting or sulking. If you approach her in a mature manner, she'll listen to you with more attention. As for the rest of it, again, pretty much normal for your age group, make sure at bedtime you turn everything off, tv, computer, 'phone, ipod, etc. and don't be too quick to decide that you can't sleep. By just lying in the quiet and dark can provide you with enough time to drop off.
Above all, please remember that in a week, 2 weeks, a month, or whenever, all these feelings will pass, and there will be something new to stress about.
Hope you really do start to feel a little less worried and stressed really soon.

Answer 6

You need to tell your mom exactly how you feel and WHY! She needs to know the root of the problem. As your mother, it's her job to help you. She may not let you move in with another family member, but maybe she can get you some kind of counseling to help explore and resolve whatever problems your having. Basically, tell your mom everything that's on your mind. If you hold things in, no one will ever really know how they can help you. You can even speak with a counselor at your school. They can also get help for you. Don't be afraid to open up. Good luck!

Answer 7

ok, first don't blame on your mother, she knos u more than u, she rly cares u, believe it! try to look from her view, maybe she has other problems u dont kno.I hope u r a teenager, and since u r a teenager I do not think u r fond of reading but pls try this book, "The 7 Habits for an effective teenager" by Sean Covey. I would be grateful if this rly helped u n u havent done anything stupid, coz i rly am not a good adviser.but remember, nobody can hurt, annoy,irritate u until u let them.

Answer 8

Ok I know this might sound like bad advise but it helped me when I was in your same situation when I was in High School. Im not the person on this profile, I am her daughter, Tiffaney. Anyways my advise to you is go to the person that is the meanest to you and beat the **** out of him/her, or find someone to make and example out of and beat the living daylights out of him/her. I know it sounds bad but trust me it works...I was in your same situation and I decided since I couldnt switch schools and my counselor wasnt doing anything for me either that my best bet was to make everyone scared of me... being mean isnt all bad people will realize that you are serious and you are sick and tired of your pressent situation and hopefully stop with their ****..it worked for me. If you dont want to do that then go spend some time with your counselor...talk to him/her. Now dont get me wrong Im not saying go on a rampage and beat everyone up but set some boundaries let people know you mean business. Dont be a push over dont let people make fun of you just react the same way they act say if someone says you are a whore, come back with something stupid like you think so but your dad sure didnt last night...make fun out of them making you feel bad be sarcastic take everything as a joke when they make fun of you make fun of them let it roll off your shoulder dont take stuff to heart. if you need anymore help or advise or just need someone to talk to my email address is [e-mail].. if you need ANYTHING just someone to talk to I check my email everyday.ttyl

Tiffy

Answer 9

Well, homeschool is always an option. And there are ways to take your high school classes online and still graduate with your class. I'd look that up and see if it's available in your town/state :)

Answer 10

Hahaha. I went to the flicks with my pals and my 2 immature guy pals does not stop giggling. So this massive biker looking guy in the back of us ultimately tapped them on the shoulder and mentioned "the two you close UP or circulate." It replaced into humorous how he replaced into there thinking we've been observing Up. LOL.