Me and my girlfriend were together 24-7 for 5 months and everything was fine untill we lost our jobs.Because of stress building up we snapped at each other one day and I ignored her for 3 days. Although I have tried to make up for it in so many ways it was never the same again. Now felt like I was a stranger to her. Would turn her back everytime I would come to bed. When I would talk to her she would not make eye-contact and would never come to me again for comfort like before. She said that before was "blind love" and now she has seen a different side of me. But she would also tell me that she loves me. This went for 3 weeks.She has been traveling now for 4 weeks and although we broke up in the heat of the moment 2 nights before she left we have been TXT'ing once a week and she replies very friendly and inquisitive calling me 'babe' and asking how i'm doing though I initiate the txt'ing. But I can't help feeling that she lost her love for me because of the signs she showed me before
2006-10-10 01:34:29 · 17 answers · asked by madmax 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you have to realize, you initialized this yourself. You turned your back on her, when she needed you the most. you have to realize all girls no matter how tough they may seem to you, they are fragile. there is nothing worse you can do or say than to ignore her. She was emotionally heartbroken, and you didn't help. to a girl this shows us your hidden sides, and it makes us believe this is how it is gonna be in the long run. it is gonna take all you have and MORE to prove to her that you love her, and taht side will never come back again.. otherwise, your rite.. you have lost the love of your life, and the love of your life has lost her love 4 you. good luck with it all.. and God Bless.. i hope everything turns out ok..
2006-10-10 01:55:51 · answer #1 · answered by holly w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She thinks your a wimp who needs letting down easily by the sound of things.
If I were you I would ***** slap the inner girl out of yourself and get on the hunt for some new women.
Besides half the worlds population are female and a good amount of them single. Oh and I reckon she's attending a few 'sausage parties' on her travels anyway.
Move on man!
2006-10-10 01:38:14 · answer #2 · answered by bearerofknowledge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't text her.I know that is very hard,however it is the only way you will know.Many break up 5-6 times and get back together
some don't.If she loves you and does not hear from you , she will pursue you.Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
2006-10-10 01:40:21 · answer #3 · answered by gwhiz1052 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm....i think u better start from the beginning if u want her back..just ask her to be your friend again..it's no use to be hestitate.all you need is step-by step..a girl need a loyal man to her partner..are you the one..?now u are being test..can u handle this..can u stand still untill she is fall with you again...?this is a task u must do till it finished..u don't know whenever she gonna accept u gain or not...but it is a worth trying...and see if she's still love u or not..
2006-10-10 01:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by ka_daz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got a job yet? If nothing has change and the reason you broke up is still there, then it is not going to work. Put all your energy into finding a job and not worrying about her still wanting you.
2006-10-10 01:41:16 · answer #5 · answered by Label Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The lady she has been left in your compound.Becouse nothing you can help since you don't have a job to assist .Be cool,find onother job then you shall get onother sweat.
2006-10-10 02:31:54 · answer #6 · answered by charles mBWAna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reminds me of an old song: "I can't get over a girl like you so get up and make the tea yourself" - and it sounds like that's JUST what's going to happen with you two.
2006-10-10 02:01:10 · answer #7 · answered by Dover Soles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on forget about her there is always someone better round the corner.myb hard at the mo but itll get easier
2006-10-10 01:39:57 · answer #8 · answered by adrian c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stopped talking to her for three days!!! Jeezzzz i think she may just be being poilte. If ya really like her you need to make it up big !!!
2006-10-10 02:32:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to ask her if there is a chance for you both again, if she says no. then you both need to move on, she calls you babe i would guess because she still cares.
2006-10-10 02:03:05 · answer #10 · answered by grumpcookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋