I am suposed to be going for a night out with people from work on friday..............thing is, i dont know them very well and it would involve quite a lot of travelling for me too. I wouldnt feel comfortable going with them but i dont know how to get out of it without saying i dont want to go.............any suggestions???
2006-10-10 01:24:09 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
"I'm skint" - noone can argue with that.
2006-10-10 01:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by lovelylexie 4 · 4⤊ 4⤋
Just tell the truth. You would feel guilty all weekend if you lied to them. Plus, you probable been lied to before and found out. It doesn't feel good. Just tell them you would but it is too far and you just aren't into it this weekend. Maybe next time. Or like someone else suggested try it you might like it. You could always leave early. But if they are like my friends at work. Come Monday morning that is all they will talk about. How much fun they had. And what all I missed. Lots of luck. Have a good weekend either way.
2006-10-10 02:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by just peachy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest - tell them you dont really fancy it as it involves so much travelling your not sure you would enjoy it as much as you could.
Or on the other hand - go out with them and see what its like - you never know - you might actually get to know them better and end up having a good night. And if you dont - you know to never go again.....but if you do ...its a whole new social group opened right up.
2006-10-10 01:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. I have had a long week and I have a really long drive and am sorry but I need to pass. You guys have a great time I'll see you monday. BYE BYE. Hope this helps. Stop letting it bother you now. Friday afternoon just let them know how you feel with no guilt. Good Luck!
2006-10-10 01:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by ascendent2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them u av got a family member coming to visit for a few days,and u dont get to see them very often so u wonna do sumthin specail with them.. Like go for a meal ect....
Just tell your wrk friends that u will deff do another night with them.. My advice tho would just to think f**k it, get some drinks down ya before u meet up with them n that will bring ya out ur shell.. There ur wrk m8z.. Go for it bird,a drunken night out is the best way to get on wiv anyone... U will be best friends with them after lol xxx
2006-10-10 02:42:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they only just asked you tell them its short notice and you forgot but you had other plans or tel them your agoraphobic and embarrassed about it and hope they don't mine Or tell them on the day that you feel awful and maybe getting a migraine and you have to take a rain check. or be honest and Say you feel uncomfortable mixing work with pleasure and your going to offend your usual Friday night social group if you give them a miss. any good? Viv r
2006-10-10 03:37:14 · answer #6 · answered by vivien r 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them or lie and say at the last minte that a friend from school asked if he/she could see you, because they are passing through town and they are only going to stay overnight and he/she would like to meet up for coffee or something.I dont know them, so I dont know what excuses they would fall for.Make something up or just be honest and tell them you're a bit shy and its far.
2006-10-10 01:30:07 · answer #7 · answered by Jade22 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why can't you say you don't want to go? You could say, you are skint, you are meeting up with mates, you have a date or you are baby sitting (ok getting a bit desperate here!).
Last choice is to stay quiet until the day and slip off home.
Up to you though!
2006-10-10 01:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not tonight darling.I'm having a headache ..
This is the typical answer ..
Or else tell them doctor has advised you complete bed rest , better still tell them there is something urgent coming up on the personal or career front..
I am the same like you I Hate night outs and parties and in general large crowds ! All the best !
2006-10-10 01:26:44 · answer #9 · answered by simply_myself 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You dont know them well so telling them something has come up should be sufficient enough. In the future you should be real and honest and just say no, when you Know you don't want to do something.
2006-10-10 01:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait until Friday afternoon and tell them that you got a call and someone ( a friend or family member) has an emergency and you can not go. Next time when they ask just tell them you have a previous engagement
2006-10-10 01:26:57 · answer #11 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋