in june my bf quarreled with me coz he saw me doing salsa with another guy.He mesd me instantly that i should be in his arms and that the other guy is me bf.I kept tellin him that he's jus a dance partner. Then he kept sending irritatin mesgs to me that im a bad gal etc tht he feels like slapping me,i shouldnt wear certain kinda clothes etc.but then in august he kept the frnshipband i had gifted him on his birthday on my car n went.I kept silent.Then he droped a mesg with only my cell no written on it in my dad's cell.After remaining silent for 3 months,i replied him tht he shouldnt mesg on my dad's cell.Then he told me tht he has come to know tht i hav been other boy's gf, im a bad gal then i told him tht its wrong n i only know him but then he said tht he will observe me for 2 months then he will becom mesg frnd. I told him not to mesg me coz he was jus blaming me.In september,he keeps mesgin me tht y am i not gettin married, people r rejecting me etc.Then i told him never to mesg me even then he keeps mesgin me.I then sent a mesg tht this no isnt with me anymore but with my frnd even then he mesgs.
2006-10-10 01:20:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
MY QUES-ON 1 SIDE HE TOLD ME ITS ALL OVER,HE DOESNT CARE ABOUT ME.THE OTHER SIDE HE KEEPS MESGIN ME,ASKIN ME TO LISTEN TO CERTAIN SONG ON TV,COMES TO SEE ME IN MALL ETC,ASKS ME BY MESGIN WHERE AM I GOING ?YESTDE HE CAME TO SEE ME N THEN MESGS THT IM A BAD GURL N I MESGD GUDBYE.HE SENT A 4WARD MESG EVEN THEN.BUT WHEN I MESGD THT DONT U KNOW THE MEANING OF GUDBYE.HE MESGD WHO CARED N BECAME SILENT.DOES HE LOVE ME?COZ HE ONLY CONTACTS ME I NEVER CONTACT BUT JUS REPLY SOME OF HIS MESGS.WHY DOES HE SEND BAD GURL MESG THEN Y HE CONTACTS ME AFTER MY RUDE MESGS NOT TO CONTACT ME.HE CONTACTS,THEN AFTER 2-3 MESGS HE WRITES SOMTHING DISTURBING N THEN V BECOME SILENT ALL THE TIME THIS THING HAPPENS.WHAT SHOULD I DO?BUT HE HASNT CALLED IN THESE 3-4 MONTHS BUT MESGS ALMOST EVERYDAY.WHAT SHOULD I DO I REALLY LOVE HIM
2006-10-10 01:21:10 · update #1
do you realy need all that hasal in your life i'm sure theres a guy out there that wouldnt play mind games with you!
plus bein with someone that possesive can be dangerous
2006-10-10 01:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by pixieprue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie look if he is this jealous and somewhat possesive now, imagine how bad he will be in a year or so. he has issues that only he can figure out and apparently seems to be very comfortable with the idea of taunting you,,normaly this is also known as harassment. LEAVE him alone do not answer his messages or continue to talk to him ,,he sounds very bad for you and could lead to something dangerous. you are better than that and deserve some one who can show you love a whole lot better,,believe me this isn't love ..just ignore him..DO NOT erase any messages he sends you because if he continues and does become threating when you start to completely ignore him ,,then you can use these messages against him as proof -evidence--to gain a restraining order against him.
2006-10-10 01:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This man keeps sending you messages because you respond. When he does this delete the message, no response should be your action, every time. If he loved you he would respect your wishes obviously he enjoys pushing your buttons. You are the only one who has the power to stop this!
2006-10-10 01:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by spunkymom86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ditch the guy and quick! He sounds overly possesive which can lead to an abusive relationship.
2006-10-10 01:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by faierylady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore his messages and use spell ck hard to figure out a lot of whats going on!!
2006-10-10 01:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ANALSEX
2006-10-10 01:22:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋