I'm a 24 year old Muslim girl,I'm one month pregnant with my boyfriend,how can I abort my child ,Is there any

Question

pills?I have a very district and prejedious family,I cant keep the baby.plzz tell me what to do?

actually i live in middle east,and keeping the baby is not even an option,especially because my boygriend lives currently in usa and he cant be with me until 10 month later

Answer 1

Arey, Allah. will he forgive you. It is just for kidding.

Best thing is to see a gynecologist and she will wash it or give some bills to terminate your pregnancy. Some many pills and medications are known to people but taking them is not correct as you may have complications later. So it should be prescribed only by a doctor. Abortion also will not take much time and some uneasiness or dizziness will be there and you have to put up with it just for one day and be careful for some more days. Do not think anymore and go to a doctor immediately. The more you delay the more complications and worries.

Answer 2

If you don't want the baby, it is not a sign of a bad mother to consider all your options. At 12 weeks, the window for an abortion becomes more difficult. Second trimester abortions are on a fetus, not an embryo, and are more dangerous and difficult. They are also psychologically harder on the mother. However, women have had successful second trimester abortions, usually, they are for therapeutic reasons. These women have gone on to have subsequent successful pregnancies, so don't believe this will damage your uterus. In a good clinic, you are not in danger of becoming infertile as a result of an abortion. You may have personal reasons that an abortion will not work for you. If you have mental health issues or are unstable this may not be the best solution. If you have been raised in a religious background with strong feelings of guilt this choice will be hard to reconcile. It may take counseling to overcome your core beliefs about abortion. The other option is adoption. Open adoptions will keep you in your child's life, you just won't be the baby's mother, but the the baby's birth giver of life. You will always be the baby's birth mother. If you get a stable couple, you are giving the child the best possible life in a difficult world. This is an act of love, and it is unselfish. You will be able to see your child grow and prosper, and it will be a blessing. Not that you won't feel the pangs and pain of "giving" your child away..as you may sometimes think you have done. But you haven't, you are in his life. It's not much different than when grandparents raise children because mom and dad can't do it. Then again, you may find you want this baby when the maternal nesting hormones kick in, but you have to make the decision of keeping the baby or adopting before the baby is born, for the best possible bonding of your baby with it's adoptive parents. Good luck, and listen to your intution. You will come up with the right answer.

Answer 3

Does your family approve of your boyfriend? You are grown; are you only thinking of doing this because of your families beliefs? Would you rather keep the baby? How does your boyfriend feel about it? I don't think this is a good reason to try and get rid of your baby, and I don't believe there's any pills you can or should take....
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Don't say that keeping the baby is not an option. That's not true; and if your man being with you is only 10 months away, your baby will only be 2 months, and I'm sure you won't be on your own that whole time. You will have your family to support you. Do you think that they would approve of you aborting your child? This baby will be a part of them, too....and you have to remember that though they may be disappointed, when that baby comes, they will all love it, and still love you!!! You are old enough to handle this. Things happen for a reason, and if this baby wasn't meant to be, you wouldn't be pregnant right now.

Answer 4

Is there a planned parenthood in your area? Try finding a free clinic, you have to really look into this. Do you have health insurance? Some doctors may even do it right in the hospital, so you do not have to deal with riot of getting an abortion at a abortion clinic. There is a morning after pill, but I believe you have to go directly to the doctor for that the next day. Go on-line do some research, but do it quick before anyone finds out, I really don't know what you have available to you, so it';s hard to give you some good advice. Just hang in there and everything will work out and don't get to stressed you may get sick.

Answer 5

There are helpful clinics which will help you abort the baby discreetly. Seek help at a hospital.

I feel terrible for you. And your baby. I wish you wouldn't have to resort to this. Have you considered the option of keeping the baby? or is that not even an option? Where in the world are you? I hope not in the middle-east. You should realise that the mistake of getting pregnant was yours & not your babies. If I were you, I would face up to the problem no matter what my family thinks. Honour you baby by giving birth to it & be free for the rest of your life.

You will be in my thaughts..

Answer 6

It's called birth control, but in your case it would be called conceive control. Why do people have unprotected sex knowing what could result, and then get all willy nilly when the known results happen? We have no respect for human life if we abort just because we have a strict and prejudice family, so what! Babies don't ask to be born, next time consider someone other than yourself. I know this won't get voted as a best answer, but who cares, the truth is more important than points. What's the Muslim thing all about, turns out that you are just as any other female with female problems, Muslim or not, you could've kept that piece of inept information to yourself.

Answer 7

I think that you need to contact a pregnancy crisis center to go over all of your options. I have a good friend that had an abortion and she regrets doing it. Me personally, I could never do it, no matter what the case was. I dont believe in it.
You need to think long and hard before doing this, but dont take too long if you are going to do it, because in USA there are laws on getting an abortion before you are so many weeks.

Answer 8

You could contact Planned Parenthood or another Women's Health office (look under abortion in the phonebook to find local offices that do them) and set up an appointment with them. The sooner the better. You do not want to get much further along. If you do have insurance, it should cover it. But I would suggest if the insurance is under your parents, not to use it and pay out of your and your boyfriend's pocket. If you do have it done, you can ask them about birth control to try to prevent this from happening again, or go to your GYN to discuss birth control asap. Good luck.

Answer 9

You never mentioned where you live? you need to find a doctor who is willing to do such an operation. Make sure it is legal where you live. I cant give u names of doctors and there is no other way you can get an abortion.

If you belong to a conservative religion, then you should abide by its rules. If you are so careless when it comes to religious teachings, at least make sure you are protected when having sex. I think you are in this situation for a reason. Learn from this experience.

Answer 10

i would not consider an abortion until you spoke with your family. I do iunderstand the teachings of muslims cause i have 1 in the family but they still love their children and abortion is not the best answer either....children do not suffer or pay the price for their parents indicrations.so talk it over before you make such a harsh decision