I had a hysterectomy in Feb. I have started taking HRT(hormone replacement therapy) I never wanted sex before the hysterectomy but now I want it all the time. My husband was upset with me when I didn't want to now I want to all the anytime anywhere. I can't get to a mild medium what should I do? Is he just paying me back for not giving it up all of those years?
2006-10-10 00:40:49 · 8 answers · asked by Terri L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go back to the dr or find a better one who will take the time to run hormone tests. Easily done by some blood work. He can then adjust your HRT to fit your lifestyle. However, if I were you, I would enjoy your newfound sexuality and hope your husband does too! Good Luck!
2006-10-10 00:46:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another cruel joke of nature.
Just when I've have come to accept the usual average, medicine cures my wife's ills, the same way as you, and now the pressure is on me. You can explain to your husband that you were dealing with medical issues and he may now collect on all those rain checks. It won't hurt for you to take charge either. He'll like the pursuit I'd wager. If he resists somehow you can point out how you felt all those years when he was upset.
If you guys are empty nesters, go back to house sex and do all the stuff you could not with the kids around. Its great fun.
Don't know how old you guys are but in your 50's its time to use it or lose it. He needs to stay in practice for the obvious health benefits. Good Luck
2006-10-10 00:55:43 · answer #2 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if he is "paying you back", but he isn't a spring chicken, he reached his sexual peak at (or around) the age of 21. He's probably feeling like he's "less of a man", because he can't satisfy you all of the time. Which makes it harder for him to be "in the mood". Just a suggestion, and alot of morally sound people do, but how about getting a vibrator? I wouldn't let him know about it, just yet. But this keeps you from hounding him until you really need it, then he doesn't feel the mental pressure from you.
2006-10-10 00:47:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats a little confusing, i never knew a man who didnt want sex unless he was cheating. You sure he doenst have someone on the side? Not to be funny, but i went through the same thing you are going through, then when the relationship started to go bad, and i didnt want that, it made me look at him differently. I think thats whats going on with you, he's acting like he doesnt want you, and now your wanting him, see what im saying, it doesnt have anything to do with the pills your taking, i stopped taking my harmones because if you have some form of abnormal growth, tumor, cancer, it will make it grow, and im fine with out it. I think its the relationship situation girl.
2006-10-10 01:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by Lace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the hubby some ginsing , yohimbe , bee pollen , there are a lot of herbal supliments to give a guy a boost , at which piont he'll have a better chance of sastifying you . and I wish my wife had been able to go on HRT , would of helped a bit if she had more of a sex drive . an tell him to get with it , he don't know how luckey he is to have a wife who wants more of it.
2006-10-10 01:03:00 · answer #5 · answered by crazy_ol_hippie_radical 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dealing with transition is meant to repair the subject concerns that stress you to flee from certainty in taking drugs. you may no longer could do something to flee anymore. i chanced on that HRT has made me experience on astonishing of the international. in case you nonetheless experience the could do drugs talk it over with your gender therapist, perhaps you're having problems adjusting.
2016-10-16 00:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by kigar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shoot tell him he should just enjoy the ride and don't ask any questions,and if he is being a bit stingy with his well take your self right down to the local sex store
2006-10-10 01:16:31 · answer #7 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow , get something to boost his sexual appetite....and maybe you both can be at the same sexual level? good luck , walking around horny all the time isn't a good feeling at all to have ,huh?
2006-10-10 00:44:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋