Thats a good question my friend! Old flames are possible to re-ignite if the mixture is still there. You should know whether or not the feelings are inside. One issue I`ve seen come up though is that each of us change in a multitude of ways throughout our lives. And we may not be the same old person you once loved. Yes we are in the physical usually alittle taller and heavier but the challenges of life often times cause many folks to turn one way or another emotionally and or physcologically as well. Then there is all the junk in the trunk from past relationships etc, to consider. SOOOOOO what am I saying my dear? I would take the time to try and reconnect and just try a freindship with no strings or expectations and see first of all is he/ she still the one you desire from the past or is the past better left in the past. Remember today is a gift thats why it`s called the Present, "Right". Regardless I do hope you find the happiness you deserve.
Jim
2006-10-10 01:39:08
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answered by Anonymous
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falling inlove with the person for the first time is much easier than re-falling in love.It wouldnt ba the same as the first time you were in love with the person,i believe that you cannot just re-fall in love as you would like to... you have to feel this yourself and you cannot teach yourself to re-fall in love with the same person, it would come out naturally and you will feel it the instant you fall in love again with that same person.
2006-10-10 00:38:05
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answered by mgeoi19 2
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you might want to fall but you cant fall in love overnight, i think its not an instant thing i think it takes time. the best way is to hang out with the person and just see how you go you never know.
2006-10-10 00:37:18
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answered by Ugine Bundaberg 1
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True love never fails. If it was there before, with a little work, it could come back 2 fold if you want it to.
2006-10-10 00:41:48
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answered by [B] 2
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Start by being friends again, Flirt and sure love feelings will follow.
2006-10-10 00:32:27
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answered by kiss me. 3
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If it's meant to be, it will happen. Don't dwell on it too much otherwise you'll just drive yourself into a pit of unhappiness.
2006-10-12 00:20:17
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answered by Funny Bunny 3
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Why would you want to? You fell out of 'love' with them for a reason. Why don't you try a new ride? Like... me, for example.
2006-10-10 00:30:29
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answered by Chuck N Knutz 2
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your question is a little confuseing add more to it. but in my opion do what ever it was that made u love them in the begining
2006-10-10 00:31:06
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answered by mommy_of_3 2
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do you want to? If the feelings arent there you cant.
2006-10-10 00:38:50
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answered by jeanjean 5
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