i got really angry 1 evening bcaz he wouldn't talk to me so i said i'm sooo mad at u and that i wouldn't talk to him 4 the rest of our natural lives. he asked y i was so short tempered and said he was watching a movie. then he said good bye. he won't answer my e-mail or his phone. i'm sooooooo sorry i lost it and i don't want to just forget about him. he become apart of me.
2006-10-10 00:03:39 · 13 answers · asked by Josangel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well a lot of guys are unreasonable too. we all are sometimes.. the best thing you should do is to give him time for him to think. maybe he also have problems on his own. if he doesn't ring you back for about 2-3days then you should go to his place and ask him what happen for the last couple of days. ask him if is it a good time for you guys to talk. then start by saying you really are sorry and that you're just worried because he won't talk to you and that you didn't know that his watching a movie or things like that. you need to be sweet and very understanding when you say your sorry. you should put your pride aside for a while and think of the feelings the both of you have.
2006-10-10 00:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by Nikkilovejeffrey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There might be 2 sides to this.
1. He really had enough of you. ( read= no more feelings)
2. He's just irritated but he still likes you.
As some of them have already said, let him cool down. During this period of time, you might find yourself having the urge to spam him with emails just to get a response.
DONT do it. It'll piss him more than ever.
Control your emotions for a few days. On your part, think about this question.
' Do you really like him? REALLY really? '
And after that, if your answer is a YES, go make something for him. Bake cookies and put it in a container, wrap it up.
Ask him out on the pretext of giving him something (the cookies of course).
Then when you guys meet up, tell him how you really feel. Remember, TRUE feelings. Dont hide anything. (:
If he still say No and its over, either eat the cookies yourself to make yourself feel better or give it to him. As a parting gift.
Its better to DO something and think back in the future that, " at least I've tried "
than
DONT do it and think back in the future that " I should have done it " and regret that you wont ever know the answer.
Uh, hope I've helped you. (:
edit: Ohh! AND! If you guys are back together, eat the cookies together then.
2006-10-10 01:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by Kifa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are done--accept it. Leave him alone for at least a month or two and then send him a short email--like one sentence with seven words in it. If he has cooled off, he'll write back. If not, then you can wait a couple of years until the hurt is all gone. In the meantime, learn from your mistake. Guys HATE drama--be more relaxed with your next boyfriend.
Girls get over guys much easier than guys get over girls. In one month you will be shocked at how much better you feel.
2006-10-10 00:23:51 · answer #3 · answered by sixgun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oohhh its a major oh oh ohouch!!! Sometimes we do things which we are not really meant. come to think of it, have you done something wrong why he doesn't want to talk to you? why he is not answering your emails and calls? if your really want him back then go after him but don;t lose your self-respect and dignity... if you think you have done it all and he still doesn't want to talk to you then.. MOVE on... there are better man out there just waiting for you...but you should work with your short temper...rock on gurl
Godbless and Goodluck
2006-10-10 00:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time to cool off. Next time think before you speak and learn to control your temper.
2006-10-10 00:07:51 · answer #5 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes a kilo to make a friend and takes another kilo to keep one am sure f he cares for u he will come back f he comes back at least tell him ur sorry it wont cost u anything after all life is a flower so keep smiling ok!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-10 00:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by frank w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh.. that ouch
well the best thing is to do is surprise this person at work and take them to lunch and say sorry and you hope you can still be lovers. it takes time but worth the try ..
2006-10-10 00:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry is the harderst word to say, i admire you gal!but what i can tell you is that,don't make small issues big issues and blow them out of propossition.learn to controll your temper make good of every bad situation
2006-10-10 00:35:29 · answer #8 · answered by kelebogile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
asking for a sorry is the best way to do..dont loose hope if but if he dont accept it.. cause if that is a true love.. it is sweeter in the second time..
2006-10-10 00:09:57 · answer #9 · answered by Nice Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry, girl! it ain't too late!
go to his place and talk to hem
tell him u're sorry and explain him what happened just like u wrote it here
good luck and take care
ali shkodrova
2006-10-10 00:15:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋