I formed this friendship with this girl by chance when she mistakenly sms me on my mobile. Since then we have been talking & smsing and met once too. I walked into the relationship wanting to have a friend to sms & talk to when in the city(not my family residence). Now she has fallen in love with me. I like her company and chats on the phone probably in a sisterly fashion but I love my wife & family. She knows i am married and says that she just wants to love me & care for me & will not make any demands on me to love her or leave my wife & family for her. I havnt been able to actually love her or maybe I dont know if I am in love with her. She is an incredible woman & pushes all my right buttons. Is it possible for someone (her) to love another knowing there is no chance of getting together actually as a couple? Should I continue this relationship or break her heart and end it quickly?She really loves me not just saying it. I am in a moral dilemma too,please help me?
2006-10-09 23:52:03 · 10 answers · asked by Whitehawk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get out Get out Get out. How do you think your wife would feel about this? You're not technically cheating on her, but it sounds as though it's just a matter of time. I've known several men who say they love their wife and kids and go ahead anyway to have an affair. This relationship is not fair to anyone involved. There is no way that no one will get hurt getting out of this, so the quicker you end it, the better for all involved.
Stop allowing this woman to "push all my right buttons" and start pushing your wife's instead. Remember why you married her in the first place and celebrate it again.
Don't wreck your marriage over someone who pushes your "right buttons", let your wife do that instead, and hope that she's still willing to if she ever finds out about this.
2006-10-10 00:28:28 · answer #1 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl's friendship isn't worth keeping. Your wife will lose trust in you if you continue this friendship with this girl. Besides, this girl is extremely selfish. She already knows you are a married man but she still persists in this friendship with you. She has no consideration for your wife's feelings. So what if she 'pushes all the right buttons' when she's an unkind person?
2006-10-10 00:03:22 · answer #2 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible to love someone even if you know for sure that you can't be together.but don't ruin your marriage and also your wife and children's lives by having an extra marital affair. you may regret it later in life. i have seen many happy families crumble and get destroyed just because of "the other woman". i would advise you to sever all ties with that girl before its too late. it is better to break 1 heart than many lives....
2006-10-10 00:00:28 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u re nuts. she pushed your right buttons, she will push them further and u will have troubles with wife. is it worth it? cos your wife will find about it sooner or later, all secrets become obvious sooner or later. u re hurting your wife who u said u love. very low
2006-10-09 23:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this will all come out in the end. and all hell will break loose!!
id break it off with this woman and stay with your WIFE and KIDS!!! if u dont you might lose them!
2006-10-09 23:57:38 · answer #5 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your family first. Nothing good will ever become of this.
2006-10-09 23:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by Ray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't care much for braggarts, and you sir are a braggart!
Ah, bubbigirl....
2006-10-09 23:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by Chuck N Knutz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't play with FIRE! You will get burn!
2006-10-10 04:12:00 · answer #8 · answered by wow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break it off.
2006-10-09 23:55:19 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you keep it up>> your dead-----------u might end up having two wives
2006-10-10 00:04:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋