2 year relationship.- He still gets jealous of me if I want to go out with my friends and gets scared I will leave him. Last night my cousin who is 6 spat chocolate at him while laughing and it got on his white shirt. He shouted at me over it and left. Even though he came over to try and sort things out from our last arguement. Last arguement being I was ill and didnt want to spend the day with him. He always loses his temper over silly things. However, He is a lovely guy when not having a temper tantrum. He reallt does look after me and sticks up for me. He is very sweet and considerate and would never see me hurt. He knows he has a problem and says its like he has 2 different people in him. But it seems like he will never change and I will have to put up with an angry man forever! hall I leave him or see if he grows up and changes his attitude. I Love him so much... It would be so hard to leave him!! I don't even know if Im strong enough now. Any thoughts would be appreciated greatly
2006-10-09 23:19:37 · 6 answers · asked by GirlyGirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am sorry, you can't imagine how this story sound familiar
so many wife beater started like
they make the girfriend think that they will never want to to see them get hurt, while they are the ones who will be doing the hurting Just imagine you two liveing together when he lost his temper where is he going to go, now he left and go home but in the furture he will stay home and continue to through his tantrum that can be with his fist on you or go to bar drink got into fights either way you still involve
he has issues, he is insecure, he needs help you can't give it to him, he must get it professionally
you love will never be enough for him, he don't like himself
he will not change without gettting help
I would say that you need to move on but once you do,don't turn back move away if you have to
Good Luck
2006-10-09 23:40:07 · answer #1 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's important that you must KNOW that unless he does something drastic, he will not change....do you want to share your life with him if he stays exactly the same? Sometimes we forget the bad by focusing only on the positive. Have your eyes open about who he really is before you make any permanent decisions. Also know that you are worth to have a special person in your life that trusts you and treats you with love.
2006-10-09 23:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by Issabella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. Trust issues can lead to ugly situations. Leave him if he ever hits you. Don't make an excuse for him, just leave. There are lots of guys that will be just as nice to you without being so controlling.
Good luck.
2006-10-09 23:28:45 · answer #3 · answered by ssbn598 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he's the lovely guy you say he is, then he won't object to going to a therapist for anger management.
2006-10-09 23:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he yells at you for something that wasn’t your fault then to be honest I reckon you should let go of him be for it is to late and he gets to involved
2006-10-09 23:37:58 · answer #5 · answered by bear_babu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid. my sis had a bf like that and he ended up hitting her and wen she finally got rid, he stalked her and really messed her up
2006-10-10 01:34:58 · answer #6 · answered by ChRiS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋