it's just a natural motherly instinct to have her own baby? Why? Cos they are happily hitched and "nose up in the air"? Do you view single motherhood as something that is abnormal and why?
2006-10-09 22:56:51 · 8 answers · asked by MyQute 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
All of you have very good valid points, which I didn't think of!! Thank you for answering! :)
2006-10-10 14:07:49 · update #1
i do not mind being a single mother as i embrace singlehood.
however, in singapore's society, it is still too conservative and folks (be it family, friends or strangers) are generally unsupportive and negative.
if you are a single mother, people usually see it as out of no choice and out of wedlock. they overlook that the mother took the responsibility to give birth and raise the child singlehandedly.
adoption is another similar topic. singaporeans are generally negative about it, even if it is a couple who decide to go this method. imagine a single who decides to opt for adoption?
so many challenge to face.
i wish we are more open minded.
2006-10-10 00:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by ash 7 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because God made Adam and Eve - not Eve, and well, a syringe. It is a final act of desperation. If a woman could have found a husband or even a mate - then that would be a choice. Even the ugliest woman or the ugliest man, can still find a mate, if they just looked a little harder. There are so many websites out there - match.com, harmony.com, matchmaker.com, etc, etc...that help those (beautiful or not) find a match who's right for them.
Children are best raised with both a mother and a father. Even in the homes where there is no father, still - the child still seeks a father figure. They need both genders, to fulfill themselves as a whole person. A little girl needs to know how to grow up to be a woman, and she needs a male in her life, so she will grow up to be someone's wife, or a mother to a son.
We are not meant to be worms, people are created by God to be with each other, man and woman. We are not meant to have children out of test tubes. If this was the case, there would be no such thing as love.
2006-10-10 02:19:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is abnormal for being a single motherhood. We have to see things from different angles. I believe that the single mother faced more stress than us as we are still in an Asia country so some of us are still quite conversative. They actually need more support from their families on this issue coz they could be at a loss when they know that they are pregnant before they are married.
I have to said that it could be a lesson learn for them but the price very heavy. Nevertheless I really respect those who dare to face the challenges by giving birth to the baby instead of abortion coz abortion is one of the fastest way to slove their problem.
2006-10-10 05:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont condem it by any means. It happens all the time. And some people would rather raise a child by themselves, because then there are never the arguments over desiplinary rules. Although, I do believe that every child needs and deserves a male and a female parent figure in their lives, to grow up healthy and emotionally strong.
2006-10-09 23:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by firedup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
extremely my 37 year previous sister is at present finding into this herself. you understand extremely, as I extremely have spoken together with her further and added approximately it I extremely have grow to be pleased with it. i think of that one ought to argue that in spite of if 2 mum and dad are desirable and we ought to continuously all attempt to furnish toddlers the prospect of the two a mom and a father, the actuality is that it does not continuously take place. If my sister became 20 - 30 or on a similar time as much as 34 and prepared to try this of direction this is a diverse tale. yet at age 37 (just about 38) in spite of if she did meet a guy now, by using the time they have been given to renowned one yet another and desperate they have been waiting to have toddlers mutually, she could be nearing an age that it may show confusing and doubtlessly volatile to her wellbeing, to not point out the bigger photograph of bigger danger of DS etc. So the way I see it is that as quickly as choosing to alter right into a confirm, in spite of if single, by using IVF, as a pair, no count how, we ought to continuously in simple terms attempt to do our superb in our very own particular circumstances. My destiny niece/nephew that my sister might have could have a great loving mom and many cousins and aunties and uncles to like it. this is alot extra suitable than some detrimental toddlers get.
2016-11-27 04:12:33 · answer #5 · answered by mccracken 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the woman to have artificial insermination and to raise her kids alone depending on the circumstances its not abnormal at all. Just follow your instincts and do what will make you happy.
2006-10-09 23:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by bootylicious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been a single mother....but my kid was concieved the natural way...not in an doctors office. A.I. seems impersonal....single motherhood is usually by accident...
2006-10-09 23:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if your a normal person u realize theres nothing wrong with that at all. by,34yearold single father of 3
2006-10-09 23:03:58 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah V 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋