well like today we were so happy we went to have breakfast in restorant after we took a cab to drive us in a place which he knew, we pass the shop we wanted to go ..i asked him if it was this shop he says no...then after 200m he stopped the cab, and said we pass out the place we should go back..i get angry and told him that i said to him already so why is doin? he shouted at me in the street it was so humiliant and it s not the first time...he is always tellin ''sorry'' after he is ok..but i can live like someone like him even if we love i dont think so i can support more...pls help me wat to do...he is a coleric person
2006-10-09 22:53:55 · 11 answers · asked by jess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If the relationship is unhealthy anymore, emotionally speaking, then, i suggest you must take a break first...
2006-10-09 22:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by j i r e h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compatibility and chemistry are two terms that are used interchangeably. Far from offering a scientific definition for each, the former entails a psychological bond between two people whereas the latter signals a physical connection. But merely explaining how the two differ is child's play; the challenge lies in how one can broach these delicate topics without alarming the other person.
Most women play a huge part in DRIVING MEN AWAY from perfectly good relationships. Of course, if you are one of the women who does this, you usually have little or no idea that you're doing this. In fact, you're COMPLETELY UNCONSCIOUS of your part in pushing a man away because you're too busy thinking that all your words, emotions, and actions are supposed to be bringing a man closer to you. And you behave in subtle ways that, little by little, push the man farther and farther away. One of the most common ways that women do this is by constantly identifying MISTAKES a man is making, or ways that a man makes them UNHAPPY, and pointing these out all the time, over and over, without prompting or warning. Think for a minute about what this makes a man THINK and FEEL about you, your relationship, and about himself...
Think about this... If you look at it from another perspective,
you'll find that even though there are important aspects of working through your feelings about a break-up... a ton of what follows a break-up takes lots of women EVEN FURTHER AWAY from what they're looking for in a relationship in the first place - LOVE and CONNECTION.
2006-10-10 20:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by Rahul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understnad ur question very well..
talk to him politely for sometime and try to make him understnd the mistake which he commits very often..also try to tke forward they way u had been hurted..
its quite evident that he loves u..its been conveyed in the form of sorry, but i agree it should not be continued always..
make him understand ur love on him..
if still u could not rectify him, just stay away for some period..surely he will realize his mistakes and u will see him as a new man
also try to analyse whether is he facing any problems..
dont worry..u both will lead a happy life..all the ebst
2006-10-09 23:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by Balaji 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You both sound like hotheads. You need to learn how to communicate with each other in a more respectful manner. Get some self-help books or go for couples counseling.
2006-10-09 22:59:27 · answer #4 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like neither one of you have patience with each other.
Something is setting you both off, and you need to get to the bottom of it. That cant be enjoyable for either one of you.
So either seek help, or destroy each other.
2006-10-09 22:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From my personal experience this kind of relationship cannot get better. Someone else would be better for both of you.
Good luck.
2006-10-09 23:50:23 · answer #6 · answered by curious 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is you, you are being confrontational and aggressive. I would expect him to leave sometime soon. And unless you can learn to shut up and submit to your man expect this pattern to be repeated through life.
2006-10-09 22:57:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think of all of them seem exceptionally comparable - male or lady. i think of adult men probably positioned much less attempt into accessorizing their avatars, subsequently the homogenized seem. the girls all appear like pouty betches, and the adult men all appear like they are puny 15 year olds.
2016-11-27 04:12:27 · answer #8 · answered by mccracken 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to do the yoga or
consult a astrolger and tell him to wear a stone that suits him
2006-10-09 22:59:00 · answer #9 · answered by xen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he will never change... you stay with the wrong person... leave him... life is too short to live like that...
2006-10-09 22:58:48 · answer #10 · answered by Tomorrowalwaysbetter! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋