been in a situation where you know you want somthing so bad yet when you try to go for it the words just wont come to ask? You try all ways yet loose your nerve and keep your gob shut! This is the first time ever for me and Im finding it so hard to deal with and getting very pis*ed off with myself as it may turn out to be a missed oportunity! If you have been in this possition did you go for it and did it work out,or do you wish you just carried on and said nothing because it did not work out as you wanted?
2006-10-09 22:47:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my fiancee went through this for a whole year and finally plucked up the courage to ask me out and we are still together today! It was hard for him to do it because we were in a big group of friends and the dynamics would have changed significantly but he decided that he wanted to be with me and went for it!
It paid off definitely because we are still friends with everyone and we are moving abroad together to start a new life! It is the best thing that has ever happened to me and i am grateful everyday he stuck his neck out on the line for me!
So if you really want it that bad then the opportunity you could be missing wil be huge because you will learn so much from making decisions and if you don't make big decisions sometimes you never will!
Sometimes jumping into something with you eyes shut and forgetting what the consequences are is the best thing to do! Forget everything that will happen or might happen and think about what you want!!
2006-10-09 22:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just come right out and say it life's too short to beat about the bush "so to speak" good luck i just ask depending on what it is like lol some times its worked out the odd once it didnt but soo wa give it a goo x
2006-10-10 10:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by robertboozychic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am currently in a similar situation, and yesterday I made a call to help myself. Im doin this on my own, im not ready to tell my parents yet cause im scared of worrying them. I hope it does work out.
2006-10-10 06:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by zanzabarr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go for it, because you could live the rest of your life wondering about it. If you ask then you will know whether it be good or bad. Build up courage and go for it!!! Good luck
2006-10-10 06:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by ~SQUEAKS~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes several times dodds. Admitting it helps because if you can be true to your self you can get this other thing off your chest as well.
Good luck girl!
2006-10-10 21:22:22 · answer #5 · answered by The Stig 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was like that as a younger man. Now I say what I feel and when I want. I found out, you achieve more when you voice your goals, wants, and needs.
2006-10-10 09:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by turbietech 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your in lurve Dodds. Know what I say....
Shut your eyes and jump,
So, you may come crashing down with a bump,
Its the flight thats amazing!!!!!
Go for it!!!!!
2006-10-10 06:39:55 · answer #7 · answered by Bodieann 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean, go for it whatever it is, get up the courage dont think abotu it too much and just do it.
took me ages to hand my notice in and when i did it was surprisingly painless!
2006-10-10 05:52:01 · answer #8 · answered by caroline17nov 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You always say whats on your mind, even if you think its not gonna come out right.
2006-10-10 05:50:38 · answer #9 · answered by Ashleigh 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remeber you regret the things you don't do in life more than the things you do.
Go for it
2006-10-10 06:51:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋