Messed up..........?

Question

I took drugs for the 1st time in 10wks on sat. My friend asked could she try some, I said no 1st + then gave in. Her sis found out and now doesnt want to know me, either does the girl who asked for it. I know I messed up big time + I have no excuse for wat I did, but witout any good Ifluencing friends like them Im scared I will go back to mu old ways. What do I do?

Answer 1

Well to be fair, your friend is her own person, so I imagine she can think for herself. We have all done things we're not proud of, I tried coke once and nvr again, it has nvr appealed to me I don't know why I did it, so I'm not proud of myself, but I wouldn't touch ne of it again, I don't really need it, have a natural high!!!!

I think you should talk to them both, and tell the sister how sorry you are, and explain that without friends like them your useless. Do a bit of grovelling, if they mean that much too you, you'll fight too keep them. Explain you need their help.

I think drugs are a very big deal but know one seems to think so anymore cuz everyone is doing it. The village I live in has got really bad and sometimes it gives other people a bad name, so it's very difficult when you hang around with people who do it.

If you feel your habit is a problem it may seem a little dramatic but maybe you should seek help. At the end of the day only you can push yourself too make changes. Do the right thing and good luck xxxxx

Answer 2

Its not your fault about your friend taking them. She can make her own mind up and you didnt force her.

If you hadn't of given them to her then she would of tried them another time with someone else.

As for you keep trying to give up i know its hard but you managed it for 10 weeks. Dont let this relapse put you off just keep trying and think about what made you take them again then try to avoid situations where you will be tempted.

Try to talk to you friend again and maybe show her the question you wrote. but dont keep beating yourself up over it.

Good look and if you are tempted to do it again just remember how unhappy it made you feel. I hope everthing works out for you.

Answer 3

What you did was extremely irresponsible. You need to apologize in writing and find a support group that you can attend on a regular basis. You also need to avoid your old friends, old hangouts and old lifestyle. Good friend are hard to find. Next time decide, drugs or friends?

Answer 4

I honestly think you should seek professional help. Try calling a hot-line or going to a rehab would probably be the best solution.

Answer 5

well whilst you shouldnt have taken them after being without for so long - you didnt force your friend to take them either - and whilst I can understand why you're not classed as bad company - you need to rise above it and show people that you're able to walk away from your old ways and become a better person proving them and their opinions of you wrong. xx

Answer 6

Grow up, take personal responsibility, realize your errors and change your ways. Quit expecting other people to pull you out of a hole and do it yourself. You want "good folks" to hang around then find them and be a good freind

Answer 7

Girl dont ever beat yourself up over this she knew what she was asking for she has to face up to her own guilt for asking! and you yourself have to say you wont go back to your old ways yes people (friends and family) can help you but cant walk in your shoes!good luckx

Answer 8

Apologise and admit your mistake and get some professional help to kick the habit!

Answer 9

Admit to your friends that it was a mistake! And promise never to touch drugs again and mean it, you dont want them nasty things ruining your life!! It will be the biggest mistake in your life!! Stay away....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 10

Call your local crisis phone line. Ask them for help.