what would you do if you trust a person to an extend to collcet some money for you whilst you are on holiday but this person was spending the money for a new Mobile? And this person build up stories to cover it... would u continue to classify this person as a friend or would u quit the friendship instantly or wait until u get the money u suppose to get in the first place?
2006-10-09 22:28:59 · 16 answers · asked by stephangie2001de 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
a nother 2 ponits
2006-10-09 22:31:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Indeed friendship is built from trust. if you feel you can't trust this "so called" friend then ditch them.
A friend is someone who cares about you and would never lie to you. soulds like the opposite is going on. if this friend can steel money off you - what else could they steel from you??
Personally i'd ask for the money back, if it's not looking likely it would be worth losing the money to be rid of this person.
2006-10-10 09:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Tickle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scenario A: If it is a strong friendship then it should survive a scolding. So scold your friend about their irresponsible behavior with your money and set a firm date as to when you are going to get it back. Then do something simple (and cheap) to reinforce the bonds of your friendship.
Scenario B: If your friendship is a little fragile then get your money first and then scold your friend.
If at anytime your friend refuses to pay you back or is lolly gagging on the whole thing then you need to take him/her to small claims court.
2006-10-10 05:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by BarbKor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By how much you are willing to do by a friend or give up for example, you had a chance 2 go 2 a 1 of event but your friend is ill and needs u, what do u choose? Friend or event? Friend obviously! But if theres doubt in your mind and you know for sure that they are lying what does your friendship mean to them would they do the same? if i was you i would tell them where 2 go!?!?
2006-10-10 05:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I certainly wouldn't classify this person as a trusted friend. As far as the money, that is entirely up to you and how you feel about it. The person would be gone,out of my life period......
2006-10-10 05:38:12 · answer #5 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this so called friend has cheated you out of money their not worth having as friends . True friendship is made of trust .
2006-10-10 07:50:19 · answer #6 · answered by rudd_linda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll ask this person about the money and if this person still build up stories especially with different stories it showing me that this person isn't good friend. I will not belive anything with this person but still keep in thouch with this person cause loosing friens is isn't good too.
2006-10-10 05:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by Retno 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-10 05:32:10 · answer #8 · answered by mada m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're being taken for a ride luv. Ask for the money outright, if you don't get instantly, then sever the freindship. AND no a friend would not do that.
2006-10-10 05:34:24 · answer #9 · answered by Bodieann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is about loyalty and trust. Someone who steals your money is betrayed both those values so they are not a friend. They are a thief!
2006-10-13 12:09:59 · answer #10 · answered by Sarey Gamp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋