Iam 17 years old and found out im pregnant its not my buyfriends kid.there is no way im telling my mom cause she will def put me out i dont want this child and i dont want to put it up for adoption.i tried everything so it can just get out of my body i really want things to return to normal.
2006-10-09 22:09:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
you need to go talk to a doctor or councillor ,if you want an abortion ,you need to have it done properly or you could do permanent damage to your self or even still have the baby but cause it some harm .There is no easy way outof this you have to grow up and handle it .
2006-10-09 22:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by stephanie n 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is too late to decide that you just don't want to deal with it. YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH IT. You made it and now you MUST take responsibilty for your actions. If you do not want the baby, that is fine, but at least put it up for adoption or have a proper abortion at a hospital. So what if your mom puts you out? You are 17 yrs old. and would be fine on your own if that is what it came down to. You are a legal adult in some states. make the right decision and do what is best for the baby and your body. First of all- go to a free clinic and make sure you are pregnant. Then, choose to either abort or have the baby and stand up to your mom.
2006-10-10 05:33:14 · answer #2 · answered by shellshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom's always tell their daughters that they will throw them out if they get pregnant as a way of instilling fear in them. However, when it comes down to it a lot of moms will support their daughters even when they get pregnant. I'm sure your mom won't be as harsh as she says she will be. Your mom might be disappointed but she will probably try to help you. Do you have another relative you can turn to who can help you. You need to tell an adult and don't hurt yourself. If it's not your boyfriend's baby, then whose? You need to rethink your lifestyle and learn about and use safe sex. I'm 28, married, and have a child and even I use safe sex 100% of the time (except for when we planned our daughter obviously). It's not that hard. I've been doing it for 4 years. Go get condoms and don't let a boy get near you without wearing one first. Please, go tell your mom, she'll most likely be there for you. Good luck!
2006-10-10 05:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by Precious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You HAVE TO tell a grown up!! If you are too scared to tell your mom at least try another female relative. You cannot do this alone. Abortion shouldn't be an option in anybodys life!!! Unfortunately having sex has consequences which you are fully aware of now. You cannot deal with this responsibility on your own. Please, before you do harm to either yourself or your baby, seek someones help whether it be a councilor or a relative.
2006-10-10 05:40:35 · answer #4 · answered by Slk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need help....mentally. You don't have to tell your mom, but please tell someone. This kinda question is too damn scary to see! I seriously hope you are joking and just wanting to see what kinda responses you will get.
If you are not, call a friend or go to the health department. Don't be stupid and hurt yourself trying to abort a baby. Your mom will still find out, because you will bleed to death!
p.s. stop having irresponsible sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-10 05:15:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No miracle would happen to you. its is not a reversible action.
2006-10-10 05:11:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-10 18:19:25 · answer #7 · answered by Patty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋