I recently met an exchange student from Denmark, and even though we intended to be just friends because he is going home soon, us spending time together has turned into a bit more than friends. We both feel pretty strongly for each other, but I am worried that since I wont be in Denmark until next summer, that we will loose that closeness, especially since we wont be able to do more than talk through chat and email. Are there any suggestions as to how we might be able to keep our relationship alive?
2006-10-09 21:53:40 · 7 answers · asked by xxtorturedinnocentsxx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When its the real thing its the real thing.... you know it in your heart. Don't let distance keep youn apart. I am from Los Angeles. I met a guy (get this) from a known heavy metal band from Denmark. I was worried about the distance, but true love prevailed. it was hard, but things worked out and we are now married. Go with your heart. Good luck! (and believe me, Danish guys are really great.... Intelligent, good-looking and most of all, very liberated. No stupid double-standard like ideals exist with Danish guys. They are the best. Very modern-thinking and liberated. Perfect for todays woman.)
2006-10-09 22:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by oinksatme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there,
There is a slim chance that you can make it, but you have to be truly realistic about your feelings for each other. Are you really in love with each other or are you in love with the concept of being in love? Your relationship will not survive without one major and basic tool: the art of dialog. When you are not murmuring sweet nothings to each other, you must be ready and able to discuss inevitable issues like jealousy, doubt, separation anxiety and the gamut of misunderstandings that seem to sneak into the conversation. Long distance love takes guts, courage and patience. Without these qualities you are doomed, but you could really succeed - and I hope you do.
2006-10-11 03:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by Maya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in two long distance relationships and believe me, unless you are planning to get married within the next year or so, don't put too much hope on it. I know it sounds very negative but that's how life goes Out of sight, out of mind. BUT this would be a real test for your relationship. If he really loves you, he'll be back for you before you go over.
Good luck..long distance relationships sucks!
2006-10-09 21:58:26 · answer #3 · answered by angelheart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My son has had three long distance relationships...they tear people apart...cause too much upset...it doesnt mean they dont feel for each other but they are unable to concentrate on what they need to do whilst at unniversity...remain friends like he has done...and you never know if the relationship was meant to be..it can be picked up again when your studies have finished.
Good Luck.
2006-10-09 21:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by Sunseaandair 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you both have that strong relationship, distance will not make any difference
2006-10-09 22:03:06 · answer #5 · answered by used1goods 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it !!!! you'll be sorry !!!! dont go out like a sucka!!!!
2006-10-09 22:39:31 · answer #6 · answered by terry h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE IT ALONE
2006-10-09 22:03:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋