I mean he knows I'm not a virgin! So I really dont want to tell him because some of them were when I was younger, and yea I guess I am afraid he will judge me! like if he thinks it is too high he will think I am a slut! and this could change his opinion of me... I told him less than 20 more than 5. lol.
But he keeps on buggn me to answer! I am clean, so i dont know y he wants to know sooo bad! What should I tell him?
2006-10-09 21:47:29 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
personally I wouldnt warrant his question with an answer...what you did prior to your relationship with him is none of his business.
I can only assume he has a complex...he must deal with this...
2006-10-09 21:50:35 · answer #1 · answered by Sunseaandair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally its nothing to do with him, you start talking about your past sleeping partners it then becomes a problem. he will want to know next which person was the best in bed, did he do this did he do that, you will end up in an argument, and its just not worth it, me and my husband have had this conversation, it just turnt into argments. I would lie about it to get him off your case, under 10 people should do it. and leave it as that. hope this helps
2006-10-10 04:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by chicken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is insecure about his sexual ability, penis size, or something. He is wanting to evaluate where he fits in the list of lovers. The higher the number, the more he has to compete with. Tell him "Its not important because your the best I've been with so far."
2006-10-10 12:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by Alfonsio Ledbetter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you already offered an answer to the best of your knowledge. he really doesn't need any more explanation. just tell him that you did have "past" relationships prior to him and to get over it. just stick with your answer. you know his next question is gonna be is he the best lover youv'e ever had. just play into his ego trip and tell him he is the best lover ever.
2006-10-10 04:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by locowherto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just want to know whether you will be faithful to him. I don't see any threat with his question. If he knows now it is better he ask you but when he knows it later this may hurt him.
2006-10-10 05:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by Rijied 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that: you have been scored "one minus what he have scored so far". It will I believe solve the problem
2006-10-10 04:51:43 · answer #6 · answered by x_squared 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is afraid of AIDS
2006-10-10 04:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by Uthman A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is none of his business
2006-10-10 04:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duhh... none of his business... PAST IS PAST
2006-10-10 04:59:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋