to make sure its fair on both sides?
would their will be mis-understanding between both the families if boy asks first or vice versa?
2006-10-09 21:38:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Asking won't help my dear ! Medical tests are required for that !
2006-10-09 21:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it matters to you mentally or psychologically, then you are probably better off asking it before marriage. Else you might end up regretting her for the rest of your married life wondering why you did not ask when you had a chance. Also remember that alls fair in the game of love and war. So you would never really know the truth ! Not unless both of you sign up for medical examination.
If it is just curiousity, then I guess you could always ask after the marriage.
2006-10-10 05:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by justinageneralway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Civilisation & worldly wisdom should have taught a lot of things to you by now. Neither of you should be posing such a stupid question. To put it more bluntly, when you order for some food in a hotel, & when it arrives, will you ask the bearer, if he has licked the same.
2006-10-10 04:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by sensible scorpio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats that word virginity? Just ask about STDs & have a HIV test done for both of them. That should be fair enough.
2006-10-10 04:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Virginity is something that is assured of once the arrangement was made.
You can still ask, if you really want to - but ethically you don't have to.
2006-10-10 05:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by firedragon_luver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too late to ask after marriage.
2006-10-11 12:26:03 · answer #6 · answered by Krishna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no restriction on conversation but no one shopuld ask such silly questions in this age.
2006-10-10 04:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You CAN but in a civilised and unhurting manner.....
but does that really help....
Don't you think there are better things to spent time on and know each other more....
2006-10-10 11:57:24 · answer #8 · answered by Vijay God Loves U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you know you are why worry about them you could ask for an aids test if you are not sure you dont wont to catch it
2006-10-10 04:44:44 · answer #9 · answered by Mim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the mothers have probably already assured that their daughters are virgins... it is not expected that the boys are virgins
2006-10-10 04:41:32 · answer #10 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋