i joint a new school,made a best friend...she promised to b by my side 4ever and all of a sudden 1 day she started ignoring me.as far as i remember v never fought in the 1 month duration of our frndship...so she ditched me indirectly.but i still feel like talking to her.is it right?or should i do the same?help!
2006-10-09 21:23:27 · 11 answers · asked by pia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i did talk to her guys..i was lonely and was in desperate need of friends..and i found her.the other girls have their own gangs and stuff nd im not in2 all dat crap.i spoke to her many many times and she found it a joke everytime i asked her...now wat?
2006-10-09 21:33:59 · update #1
talk to her about it and tell her how you feel, if she doesn't respond to it, well then continue with your life, if she was your best friend she would have told you what was going on and why she isn't talking to you, but i guess looks deceive us all.
2006-10-09 21:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does she promise to be by your side forever even though she's only known you for (less than, I have to assume) a month when she said that?
Cut her a little slack. I understand you are new, and feeling unsure of yourself, but it sounds like you were maybe forcing the friendship since you were feeling lonely. It's understandable, but it's also a good way to ruin friendships. Just give her some room, then ask her what's up. If she continues ignoring her, too bad - her loss. Make some new friends.
2006-10-10 04:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to ask her what happened?? because in her mind she may think you've done something wrong...and if you don't say anything to her then you will prove her right....you can't go around wondering what happened after someone just all of a sudden starts ignoring you....you need to confront her and find out whats going on....because someone may have told her that you were talking about her behind her back....and if you never confront her....then she might believe that its true, another thing i was thinking is maybe she found a new friend or maybe she used you til she got what she wanted...think about all of that and see if any of it add up...good luck!!!
2006-10-10 04:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would not talk with her anymore. For whatever reason she ditched you--don't worry about. Go on and make new friends. Don't worry about it. A person that treats you that way is not a true friend.
2006-10-10 04:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by beckychr007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is not a lie and death issue. Simply be quite if you think that you are flawless. Others auatomatically search for you.
2006-10-10 04:41:37 · answer #5 · answered by leonardo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might be she is expecting something else from you. Talk to her openly
2006-10-10 04:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by makesh b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it man.. think that she is not enough lucky to be with u.. jus go on.. make ur self enjoyable then all girls will come for your friendship
2006-10-10 06:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by visakagn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the same, so you can make friends with someone who isn't coockoo.
2006-10-10 04:26:59 · answer #8 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her openly about this.
2006-10-10 04:31:10 · answer #9 · answered by valu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, silly. She is a best friend....!!!!
2006-10-10 04:28:43 · answer #10 · answered by Polly S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋