2006-10-09 21:19:37 · 16 answers · asked by zanzabarr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you just get a chance to talk about any issues you have, it give you a chance to talk and not be judged. it gives you a chance to tell someone how you really feel.
it can be very helpful.
2006-10-09 21:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by kirsty b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Counceling is wonderful because someone, a stranger sits and listen to you, You are not judged. Talking to friends or family can be hard because they always have there opions but with a stranger i.e a counseler its great because they are not involved in your life at all and they just listen and try to help you to understand in better terms of what your feeling.
Listen to someone without judging them or having a opion about what your saying is something that we all need from time to time. good luck
2006-10-09 22:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by blondegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You talk about everything that is bothering you...present past or future, it is all kept confidential aswell, but they are good listeners and they will talk about the best way to resolve your issues, everyone i know who has had it has felt competley comfortable with the counceller!! dont forget the are specially trained people and are proffesional in these areas and have trained for years for it,
2006-10-09 21:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by misyid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one will tell you what to do - if they do, change counsellors. They will just listen to you and try to put your own words back to you in such a way that you feel they are not judging ANYTHING you say, that you are ok and then ultimately, you will see that there might be a different way of seeing your own life and you can change your mind - literally.
2006-10-09 21:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by youdancin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Counselling can help open the closed door/windows of mind from where clogged phenomena can pour out which in turn,make over weighted mind relieved of weight & pressure.
2006-10-09 21:24:24 · answer #5 · answered by saumitra s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what method they use. i prefer cognitive therapy because you figure it out on your own at a nice pace. in the old days the shrink would say blah de blah and you would answer then they'd say hmmmmmmmmmm....... either way you end up curing yourself - it's just the approach and how open-minded you are.
what happens is what you allow to happen - you're in control !!
2006-10-09 21:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by uberaura 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the councillor sits and listens to what you have to say, he wont give his opinion, lets you do the talking and don't be afraid to pour your heart out, it does help but might take a few visits before you feel any better
2006-10-10 01:15:59 · answer #7 · answered by Jackie M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sit and talk to someone about how you are feeling, what you problems are etc. They will try and help you find solutions to them.
2006-10-09 21:21:48 · answer #8 · answered by OriginalBubble 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sit and talk about whats going on in your life and whats happened in your life and they try and help you sort it out
2006-10-09 22:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by gosport girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you talk, and the counselor listens. Its a way to vent really and that's where its most effective
2006-10-09 21:23:27 · answer #10 · answered by thedaybear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋