I'm 18, my parents control my life, I'm often sad & depressed. I lost my virginity back in February 2006 and since then I hve had 8-10 sex partners. I don't know what to do and I'm heading down the wrong path but I am never able to get my point across.
2006-10-09 21:09:59 · 10 answers · asked by C O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You've got to be strong for yourself and find a different way of dealing with this. Make new friends? Talk to a councilor? There must be other ways of dealing with your depression. At the very least, make sure you use protection.
You can get through this. At least you realize what you are doing - that is the biggest hurdle, or so I've heard. Hope you feel better.
2006-10-09 21:13:23 · answer #1 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look sex never leads to the right answers. I have been down that path and oh how have I faced some consequences. Do you know how many diseases there are that can make your life more miserable than what you actually feel at this point? I am not trying to preach or anything, but this is true.
I hope this helps in some way, and I know that it is hard to get out of the lifestyle that you are currently in. Just stay protected and take the proper precautions to keep yourself healthy!
2006-10-09 21:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by volcomrocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm i hate to say im the same way..but i somewhat am. Although i stopped being so loose this past summer..im 19,and this marine was trying to get with me....we did do some stuff,and later i found out he had a long term gf!!! what a jerk,so it really changed my point of view. I defentely cannot trust that i will find comfort in sex,it just ends up hurting you. Try getting out more and doing things that are positive..get a good job that will keep you busy. Drop the negative friends in your life and get good ones. If you feel you have no hope still see a therapist.
Good luck.
2006-10-09 21:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by yahooaddict 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having sex for the wrong reason is like taking drugs or over-eating. You are filling a void in your life with something that ultimately will leave you unsatisfied, unfulfilled and feeling worse than if you did nothing. You need to deal with the issues at hand. Your parents probably seem to not understand you, but try to put yourself in their shoes for minute. Imagine yourself with a daughter that you want to grow up well adjusted and successful. That is what your parents want for you. Really. Try to be a little more receptive to their demands, show some responsibilty and slowly they'll put their trust in you and give you more freedom.
2006-10-09 21:19:43 · answer #4 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn how to talk to our parents bout the way you are feelings, as ive been were you have been where you are heading and the number of partner keeps growing.....
You need to relax and know sex isnt the answer for anything as its only quick fix for the time being. Dont get me wrong it does feel great at the time....
Good luck but i hope it works out for you...
xox
2006-10-09 21:23:59 · answer #5 · answered by jobells04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my dear, yes, as so often happens women confuse sex and love.. I don't know why they just do it. you have low self esteem problems. this is not uncommon, but don't think cuz guys have sex with you that they like you necessarily. be careful you will find a meaningful relationship with some one and fall in love. there is nothing better that sex with love. you are worth the wait.
2006-10-09 21:15:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be working on your independence, rather than sex partners. If you're unable to make accomplishments on your own, perhaps you should speak with a professional counselor.
2006-10-09 21:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just b strong and work really hard to earn a good living. your self esteem wont get any better sleeping with guys u that arent even marriage material so hold back on that.
2006-10-09 21:18:15 · answer #8 · answered by dipper9stikk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its all age factor but try not to have sex just that your depressed if you want to be happy try to physicaly help poor than youll find your self very happy because your makin others happy
2006-10-09 21:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by sunny k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a dildo
2006-10-09 21:13:07 · answer #10 · answered by anna f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋