2006-10-09 21:06:58 · 24 answers · asked by kwest 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
NO only if he has sex with her or oral sex with her.
If he ask her out outside of the strip club.
2006-10-09 21:08:34 · answer #1 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To put yourself into a questionable position where there is doubt of your intentions would more than likely be voted towards cheating. First off if your married I would think a lap dance from my wife would be so much more exciting . Why , because I know after the lap dance I have a great chance of getting made love to . It's a lot better than getting a Lap dance from someone who has stuck their but in everyone faces all night long showing how slutty she can be .......
Let me asked this ...If the tables were turned and it was your wife getting the lap dance . How do you think you would react . Maybe you would lose your control and accuse her of having a thing going ..... But it's is always OK for the guy to do it ....Mmmmmmmmmm Hey what goes around comes around
2006-10-10 04:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by marshoberg55 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in biblical terms, simply looking at a woman lustfully is cheating. I guess if the guy just sees the lap dance as nothing arousing lol. But yeah if he goes and finds this enjoyable and is able to share a sexual fantasy with someone else, it is cheating. I mean why can't wife/girlfriend strap on a thong and do a little shaking instead?
2006-10-10 04:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by thedaybear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say no. But if I were the girl in that situation, I would like to know that you were going, just so that it didnt seem you were doing it behind my back. A lot of guys go to strip clubs with their buddies, and many even take their girlfriends! As long as you dont try to pursue anything more than just a lap dance, then you should be fine :)
2006-10-10 04:10:30 · answer #4 · answered by volcomrocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll go against the grain here and say YES it is cheating!
A lap dance is simulated sex; Some guys even ejaculate when getting one (how the hell is that not cheating?)
What's next, let your man see a prostitute? and justify it by saying "oh it's not like it's a serious relationship"
Going to a strip club however, in my opinion, is not neccesarily cheating (as long as there is no touching involved, or physical contact whatsoever)
Think about it like this: Would you rather have your man kiss another chick? or have her rub up on him until he cums?
2006-10-10 04:16:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so.. If he had sex or a relationship with the said stripper that's when I think he'll commit something his wife/Gf will never be proud of.. Again.. No kissing or anything.. But then, why risk the worry if he can simply just shrug off the dancer? Guys, hard to do? I don't think so.. I knew dozens of men who ignored strippers for their wife's/GF's sake.. I highly respect them all..
BTW, they're definitely not gays...
2006-10-10 04:14:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Billy Clinton can get some action from Monica in the oval office and state it's not sex, then a lap dance is equivilent to a handshake.
2006-10-10 04:10:20 · answer #7 · answered by steinwald 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a women and I don't think it would be cheating if my significant other got a lap dance. I don't see the harm in it.It is when other physical things happen that would be considered cheating.
2006-10-10 04:10:08 · answer #8 · answered by kitten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation, but generally, it's not cheating, but almost definately will piss her off. Certain occasions would make it understandable, like a bachelor's party or something. But if it is repetitive, that is really insulting to a woman usually - you'd rather pay for *** than get it at home with her.
2006-10-10 04:10:51 · answer #9 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is in the eye of the beholder. If you read your bible you would know that lust is one of the 7 deadly sins. If you lust in your heart then you are a sinner. And having a wife, being consumed by lust, then you are a sinner thus a cheater.
If you cheat in your mind, and want what is not yours and can't be yours because you are married... Think about it.
2006-10-10 04:17:55 · answer #10 · answered by meowzer mix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all means that he dosnt love his girlfriend or wife any more and thats why he like stripper to do the job
but its also your fault that you let him go to a striptease bar
instead of havin sex with the way he wants
2006-10-10 04:11:59 · answer #11 · answered by sunny k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋