2006-10-09 20:51:46 · 15 answers · asked by Emma B 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Iain the Pie Lover... man.. man
You need to treat the ladies with some more respect...
No.. we don't all have commitment issues... If you have any doubts I'm afraid that it has to do with an inability to communicate effectively.
Those men that have "commitment issues" are simply those that don't want to commit. I have always found it best to be upfront about this.... I know a lot of ladies that don't want to commit also...
Perhaps you seem to eager to commit or are simply picking the wrong guys or looking in the wrong places...
Take time out and have a good look at yourself and what you want.. I don't want to come across as judgemental because I don't know you... but often our partners pick up on messages that we send out and our fears and doubts then become a self-fulfilling prophecy...
2006-10-09 20:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by Harrison N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i wouldn't say all men, that's a real generalisation. But one thing i can say from experience is that as Ive got older (33 now) and after a few mistakes Ive become more realistic i guess is the right term about relationships and the possibility of them going sour , so that probably explains a lot of mens commitment issues nowadays, its the way society in general has become, ie more suspicious, more material, more informed etc etc etc
2006-10-10 04:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by J B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a guy, as for my opinion; i would like to have a relatiohsnip, yes, either a long term or a short term which it all depends on the other end's behaviour and time.
if the girl i'm seeing asking me to have a commitment though there're two things i will have to consider before making a decision.
a. time - one, two, or three years?
b. things in common - if we get along well, that would be great.
c. trust -> faithful - how much we can count on eah other.
d. her parents & friends - if they don't accept me, so i don't waste my time.
when is the proper time to have a serious commitment?
i like to see the world, enjoy my time after college, of course, i'm looking for my real self. as for myself i think that when i reach 32 is the time to have someone seriously.
I don't know what other guys might think about this, commitment. some are afraid of it, some are ready for it. the important thing is that we're guys, we have responsibilites, especially when we're going to have families, we should think about money, do we have enough money?
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oh, seems to me that this is a big issue, really.
do girls think about this, too ?
2006-10-10 04:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by O2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its good that some men do have commitment issues because deep down they must have doubts,unlike my husband,he married me 6 yrs ago and still lives a single life and leaves me behind and alone,i would have preffered him to have had "commitment issues"and not gone along with the wedding,i would be a happy woman now,instead!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-10 04:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oddly enough there is a small article in the Metro today which says that younger men are becoming more commited in relationships.
Ive never been scared of commitment myself and none of my friends have either
2006-10-10 03:56:47 · answer #5 · answered by poli_b2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!! i might be a good example, when i was younger i never committed, and never do unless i really feel they are worthwhile, im 23 and have been with my g/f for over 3 years and am going to propose at xmas. hows that for commitment?
2006-10-10 03:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Gravy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because the same traits that make some men that way are also found in women, but being a woman, you probably dont recognise them in women, as its not a high priority for you
2006-10-10 04:00:51 · answer #7 · answered by m c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've found out that most guys do..until they reach about their mid 30's,then they start to change and actually act mature. I guess its just some immaturity issue that they got.
2006-10-10 03:53:56 · answer #8 · answered by yahooaddict 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men typically do not mature faster than females. Females are natural nurturers, one partner, always looking for the one person who completes them. Men do not do that until much later in life.
2006-10-10 03:54:13 · answer #9 · answered by LV 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
not all men, just the selfish men. it seems like the longer they are alone the worse it will get. it seems to be really true in older men. most the time i think its just an excuse..
2006-10-10 03:57:59 · answer #10 · answered by rhonda3826 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋