See with my ex we had amazing chemistry from the first time our eyes met. (like he took my breathe away!) And we ended up bumping into each other 3 times b4 we even talked to each other. 3 times with in 2weeks, and that is rare where I live to just keep seeing the same person "around"...ya know?
And later (after we eventually got together) we discussed it and we realized that we both had had the same chemistry feeling with each other when we first saw each other at the mall (but we were both to shy to speak to the other).
I had stood out to him in the crowd, and vice versa.
But the thing is stuff ended up not working out between us......and what i want to know is do you think that all that crazy stuff that happened in the beginning meant we are soulmates? or maybe just that we were supposed to meet (like fated, or whatever you wanna call it), and maybe we helped each other grow.....or something.....what do you think?
2006-10-09 20:51:41 · 14 answers · asked by LaDyLuCk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I guess what I really want to know is do you think this "soulmate" thing is just some crazy delusion I had because of the way we met...
2006-10-09 20:53:58 · update #1
People come and go out of our lives everyday. It doesn't mean that you are "soul mates". Relationships happen so that you both can grow and learn. If you stay together then it was so suppose to be if not, you move on and learn from that particular relationship. The soul mate thing is a made-up term for people who believe that the person that they are with are connected to them in a special way, it is not a real term. The right person or mate will be found and you will feel as though they are a soul mate simply because your feelings will be the same for each other....deep and true.
2006-10-09 20:55:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope.. No one has his own soul mate and there is no fate in this.. This is called chance.. You bumped into him by chance, and these rarley happenings make you belive that something deeper is going on. But actually nothing is going on. I think what you are saying is very very simple and it is a matter of just liking this person. If stuff are going on well, then i think there is a future. If nothing, then nothin. It is not fate or it was meant to be or anything like that..
2006-10-09 20:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by Blend 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u re confusing the meaning of word soulmate. soulmate is a person to whime u can share everything, even your soul - u know he/she will be always there for u no matter what happens and u can share everything together. and i realy don't see how bumping onto each other in the mall and after having sexual lust to each otehr can be defined as soulmates. it was pure lust and coinsidence. if u were soulmates your "chemistry" wouldn't stop working after a while
2006-10-09 21:01:19 · answer #3 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally speaking, I think failed relationships are definitely made for one to know or detect his/her own mistakes and change it for the sake of a better relationship.. Failed relationships should not be taken as some sort of a 'bad omen' but instead, a training ground for self-realization and identify the personal faults.. There's no sense in mourning or being afraid of a failed relationship.. Think of it as something of an experience and for you to pick up lessons..
I don't really believe in soul mates.. If there really such thing as soul mates, there should be no bad relationships.. Soul mates are 'supposed' to mean as a couple which are made for each other.. If soul mates really exist, a peron should meet them and there will be no such thing as 'single-til-death'.. Exemptions of course are nuns and priests..
2006-10-09 21:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I sometimes think that the sould mates, the ones we have chemistry with are just not meant to humanly be in relationships that shine so bright that the explosion burns out eventually,
It is hard to explain why we click with others and why such powerful chemistry doen'st alway last.
There will be other men who you will feel chemistry with and they ight last or they might end up forever.
2006-10-09 21:02:15 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe everything happens for a reason. That is something my mom has instilled in me from the time I was little. Yes, I do believe all relationships play some role in your life and make you stronger and wiser for the next one. There are past relationships I have had that I am like best friends with the guy now and anytime I have a problem, he is there to listen and help me through it. I really believe our past relationships help us to learn what to do or what not to do for the next one.
2006-10-09 20:56:05 · answer #6 · answered by Hopey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like to believe in soulmates, and if you believe in that why not souls that are there to help you move through life, maybe souls that have met befre and are just really good friends.
2006-10-09 21:56:07 · answer #7 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that sometimes we meet the right people at the wrong time. Sometimes the right time happens but not the right someone. I met my husband 17 yrs ago-INSTANT chemistry but it didn't work out even though we had a child-fast forward15 years-the right time and the right person happened for us and we are back together and happily married
2006-10-09 20:58:27 · answer #8 · answered by rwl_is_taken 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think of you may completely overlook approximately him, for awhile. permit him comprehend how lots you recommend to him. You have been jointly for alongside time, yet obvousley you permit him handle you like this. as quickly as hes waiting to certainly sit down and talk like mature human beings. clarify each and every little thing to him dont carry back. Im married and hubby is an analogous way, yet hes in basic terms ur bf so which you're able to try this appropriate for your self. solid-success
2016-10-16 00:54:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you were on the right track when you said you were meant to help each other grow... we learn things from each person that passed thru our lives.... so , yes, even tho it did not work out, it was meant to be..... take what you learned and move on.... God bless
2006-10-09 21:04:08 · answer #10 · answered by Annie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋